CTBHHM: Are You a Dumb Cluck?

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Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 217---219 Dear Mrs. Pearl,I am so tired and discouraged. I feel as though my husband just doesn't love me or care for his family as he should. The house is falling apart. The yard is full of trash. The last straw is that the sink is leaking so badly that the floor under the sink always stays wet. He is quick to help anyone who calls for help, but to get anything done around here is impossible. Last night we had a big fight because of the screen door. It has … [Read more...]

CTBHHM: Your Husband Can’t Cover for You

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Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 216---217In this section, we see the alternative to the "good woman" Debi outlined in her three examples last week. In that passage she spoke of men who are lazy, or bad fathers, or dishonest, and informed women who may be wives of these men that it is their duty to cover for their husbands' faults and make them appear faultless to the world. This week she speaks of women who are spendthrifts, or who leave their children with sitters, or who take advantage of … [Read more...]

CTBHHM: Wives, Cover for Your Husbands

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Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 214---215This week we begin Debi's chapter on being "Good," which is the next character trait listed in Titus :4-5. The Crown"A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones" (Proverbs 12:4).A good woman is a crown to her husband. She can make a mediocre man be as honored as one wearing a crown. This is a really good summary of this passage. The entire point is that by being "good" the woman can … [Read more...]

CTBHHM: Get off the Internet!

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Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 211---222I am now armed with a fresh copy of Created To Be His Help Meet and ready to resume my reviews. For reasons completely unknown to me, my previous copy never reappeared. I have utterly no idea where it is. But lest my readers worry, I bought my fresh copy used. Leaving Home by Phone, E-mail, and Chat Rooms"I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully" (I … [Read more...]

CTBHHM: Do Women Have Types?

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You're probably wondering where today's Created To Be His Help Meet post is. I have some sad news---there won't be one, technically speaking. I cannot find my copy of the book, and believe me, I have looked everywhere! I have ordered a new copy (you can get them cheap if you buy them used) in case I do not find my copy, so your regularly scheduled installment will be back next Friday.I'm not going to let this break in my review series go to waste, though. I want to take some time to address … [Read more...]

CTBHHM: God or Husband—Whom Do I Obey?

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Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 210---211Debi just finished telling her readers that God's desire is for mothers to be keepers in the home, and that if they leave their children with others (even for as little as ten minutes) their children could end up molested or worse. She went so far as to say that not being a stay at home mother was to commit blasphemy against God. Now she addresses an important question, because she has put her readers in a bit of a dilemma. Whom Do I Obey?¬†What … [Read more...]

CTBHHM: Stay at Home or Your Child Will Be Molested

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Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 208---209Debi is really good at scaring women into doing just as she says. Have you noticed that? If you don't submit to your husband and have sex with him any time he asks . . . you will end up divorced and living in a dumpy duplex. And so on. Well, this week we begin the chapter titled "Keepers at Home." And according to Debi, if you are a mother and don't stay home with your children as commanded by God, well, there will be consequences. Scary … [Read more...]


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