Men Aren’t Sex-Addled Beasts, They’re Just Individuals


Men are no more rapists in their natural state than I am asexual in my natural state.~ Hannah As a young conservative evangelical, I was taught that I had to dress modestly to protect them from "stumbling" into sexual sin, and that it was natural for a guy to keep pushing for sexual favors, and it was my job to say no. I was taught that men were visual and easily aroused, and that men think about sex constantly. I was taught that men were to pursue and women were to be pursued, and that I … [Read more...]

Point, Counterpoint: Talking about Gender Differences

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Conservatives insist that there are huge differences between the genders while feminists insist that inasmuch as gender differences exist, they are social constructs. Men are from Mars and women are from Venus, conservatives insist. Or are they?I recently stumbled upon an article by Suzanne Venker published on Fox News. The title? "To Be Happy, We Must Admit Men and Women Aren't Equal." Venker is on the "men are from Mars, women are from Venus" side. Let's look at her article and then turn … [Read more...]

The Real Victims of Sexual Assault in the Military … Men’s Careers?!?

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So, this is kind of horrifying, but some individuals are actually arguing that women shouldn't be allowed to serve in more military positions because when they do the rate of sexual assaults will go up, and that will ruin men's careers. Yes, you heard that right. Men's careers.Here's what leading anti-feminist Phyllis Schlafly had to say: Military women are already complaining about increased sexual assaults, and of course those problems will skyrocket. Only men will be deemed at fault because … [Read more...]

Raised Evangelical: Isaac’s Story


A post in the Raised Evangelical series.Section 1: Introduction Question 1: Please introduce yourself before we get started, providing a brief snapshot of your background an overview of your beliefs today.My name is Isaac. I am a nineteen-year-old male living in the buckle of the Bible belt. I grew up in various states but was exposed to the same culture and beliefs regardless of where I went.My experience with faith and faith culture is a little different from that of most … [Read more...]

More Chores for Men = Less Sex?


Honestly, I really think reading how the media reports academic studies is generally a bad idea. This is how you get headlines like this: It may be the 21st century, but a new study suggests sticking to old values may reap benefits — that is, if you like sex. (source)Want to have more sex? Men, stop helping with the chores. (source)Couples wanting to improve their sex lives may want to look at how they divide household chores, because men and women who follow traditional roles have sex m … [Read more...]

John Piper, Gender Roles, and Women in Combat

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In the wake of the decision to allow women to serve in combat positions, let's take a look at popular evangelical leader John Piper article on the subject, "Co-Ed Combat and Cultural Cowardice." If I were the last man on the planet to think so, I would want the honor of saying no woman should go before me into combat to defend my country. A man who endorses women in combat is not pro-woman; he’s a wimp. He should be ashamed. For most of history, in most cultures, he would have been utterly s … [Read more...]

The Biblical Case against Women in Combat?


As you probably know, the defense department has just moved to allow women in combat. This is a move that conservative evangelical leaders have been warning about for decades, and their reaction was predictable. Let's take a look at what conservative evangelical author, pastor, and Christian Patriarchy leader Douglas Wilson had to say. No one should be surprised at the announcement that women are now going to be serving in combat roles in the U.S. military. This has been heading toward us for a … [Read more...]