Guest Post: I Don’t Care if You Call Yourself a Feminist, pt. 1

A guest post by Sarah MoonOriginally posted at Sarah Over the MoonIn my time on the feminist internets, I often hear arguments for why EVERYONE should identify as a feminist. “If you think women are people, congrats, you’re a feminist!” “Quit saying ‘I’m not a feminist, but….’ You are a feminist!” Etc., etc., etc. There was a time, when I first became a feminist, when I would have shared quotes saying something similar.But lately, when I see these arguments trying to shame people into … [Read more...]

Guest Post: Alix on Civility and Confrontation

Reader Alix and I disagreed last week in a comment thread about the role of things like personal attacks in argument with those with whom you disagree. As you may know, my comment policy makes certain requirements of those who comment here. This is my blog, and as such I set the rules. Alix and I still disagree on a few particulars, but I offered er the chance to write a guest post on the topic. Here it is. A Guest Post by AlixLet me tell you a story.Way back, years ago (before I had … [Read more...]

Guest Post: A Courtship Story, Part 8: Courtship Is Not the Answer

A Guest Post by MelissaOriginally posted on Permission to LiveNote: I’m reposting Melissa’s series, originally written in February 2011, with her permission. Why now? Put simply, because it was one of the first things that came to my mind when I heard about Jessa Duggar courting. This is something I wish she could read. This is for Jessa. For all the posts in this series, click here. Looking back, I like many things about our story. I love that we were very honest about our ne … [Read more...]

Guest Post: A Courtship Story, Part 7: I Do

A Guest Post by MelissaOriginally posted on Permission to LiveNote: I’m reposting Melissa’s series, originally written in February 2011, with her permission. Why now? Put simply, because it was one of the first things that came to my mind when I heard about Jessa Duggar courting. This is something I wish she could read. This is for Jessa. For all the posts in this series, click here.  We spent most of our time together at our family homes, so we also spent a lot of our time togeth … [Read more...]

Guest Post: Containing Multitutes

When I read Sarah's post last week, I knew right away that I wanted to share it here. I found myself nodding so hard so many times I couldn't not do so. And so with Sarah's permission, here it is for you to read as well. A Guest Post by Sarah JonesOriginally Posted on Anthony B. SusanSo I’m not a secular activist.To the horrified atheists reading my blog: let go of your pearls. To the Christians praising the Lord: this prodigal hasn’t returned. I am an atheist. I deliberately chos … [Read more...]

Guest Post: A Courtship Story, Part 6: The Countdown

A Guest Post by MelissaOriginally posted on Permission to LiveNote: I’m reposting Melissa’s series, originally written in February 2011, with her permission. Why now? Put simply, because it was one of the first things that came to my mind when I heard about Jessa Duggar courting. This is something I wish she could read. This is for Jessa. For all the posts in this series, click here.  Hunk and I and our parents set the wedding date that same night. He was going to graduate school … [Read more...]

Guest Post: A Courtship Story, Part 5: Will You Marry Me?

A Guest Post by MelissaOriginally posted on Permission to LiveNote: I’m reposting Melissa’s series, originally written in February 2011, with her permission. Why now? Put simply, because it was one of the first things that came to my mind when I heard about Jessa Duggar courting. This is something I wish she could read. This is for Jessa. For all the posts in this series, click here.  Two days later, I was allowed to drive over to “Hunk’s” house for the first time (with a sister a … [Read more...]


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