A Reader Asks: How Can I Free My Daughter from Fundamentalist Fears?

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I recently received a question from a reader, and I thought I would put it to all of you to help answer it: “What resources are there for me to share with my thirteen year old daughter about coming out of the darkness of the culture you write about?… I want to give her some tools–books, blogs, anything that is age appropriate to help her.” What suggestions, including both resources and general advice, do you have for this reader?

Literal Hell + Age of Accountability = What?!?

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I remember when Andrea Yates drowned her five small children in a bathtub. I was a conservative evangelical at the time, and still in high school, and when I heard about the story I had a problem. I knew I found what Yates had done morally reprehensible, but, well, I couldn’t find a way to criticize her reasoning for doing what she did. My theology wouldn’t let me, because, well, her theology was my theology followed to its logical conclusion.