1. Pray for your heart condition toward your spouse.
2. Forgive fully, freely, and frequently.
3. Pray for your spouse every day.
4. Pray with your spouse every day.
5. Share what God is teaching you with your spouse.
6. Apologize and repent when you are wrong.
7. Get a fun date every week.
9. Ask how you can be a better spouse without being defensive.
10. Read at least one marriage book every year to learn and grow.
11. Say thank you all the time for specific things you appreciate.