The Pursuit of Enough: Slow, Deliberate

Last Friday afternoon, I donned my running clothes and wheezed the mile and a half to August’s school, pushing Brooksie in the double stroller. After I picked him up and we all played awhile in the nearby park, the boys climbed in, I set out the snack of goldfish and made promises of hot cocoa at home, just as the sun began to set and the wind picked up its chill. It was a fifty-something degree day in the sunshine. Now our bare hands and noses were red and raw. The boys were cozy with a … [Read more...]

A letter to St. Benedict, on his feast day (a repost)

Friends, I've been doing a lot of reading about our favorite, St. Benedict, this week for my side project. I've been thinking a lot about what made his Rule radical, how choosing to value moderation over zealousness and compassion over the enforcement of harsh commitments within the monastery, allowed (and continues to allow) countless people to experience the kindness of Christ. I'm still learning what it means to value moderation and compassion as a follower of Jesus, but I feel like coming … [Read more...]

The Spiritual Practice of Slowness

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I was strangely moved by that almost final scene in the movie Lincoln, when the president walks away, his back to the camera, down the long White House hallway and into the shadows. Of course we,  the audience, know Lincoln is walking down that hall for the final time. We know he is on his way to Ford's Theater and we know what waits for him there. But that's not what moved me as I watched that scene. What moved me was the slow deliberation of Lincoln's strange, lanky gait. As I watched that … [Read more...]

One Good Phrase: A Series

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There are phrases that have become mantras in my home. There are phrases that are said over and over, every time one of my boys hurts his brother. Your brother will be your best friend your whole life. Are you treating him like a friend? There are phrases I say because I need to remember. We all need to remember. We use our words to love each other.* We use our hands to love each other. There are secrets I barely understand and they are coming out of my mouth. The Lord bless you and keep … [Read more...]

One Word 2013: Enough

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I wish I were a mom with constant craft supplies. I wish I had every kind of glitter available and fresh scented play-dough always waiting for little fingers to mash. I wish I were a mom who filled hours with learning, a mom who sent thank-you notes on time. I wish I had real, practical goals in my mothering life. I wish I weren’t just standing at the kitchen sink while my son begs me to play cars with him again. I wish I weren’t begging him to stop asking so I can finally mop the floor … [Read more...]

Light Your Candles Quietly: Keeping Advent with Mary, Vol. 4

A Christmas Eve Reflection: Light Your Candle Quietly August made his own menorah this year. I’ve mentioned before how, quite by accident, we ended up at an Orthodox Jewish Preschool. The presence of Hanukkah in our lives has made for a lot of interesting conversations. It’s also meant that August wanted to light his handmade menorah all through the eight days of Hanukkah. So we did (at least I tried to...it didn't happen every night). I don't know much about Hanukkah, but I know that at … [Read more...]

Light Your Candles Quietly: Keeping Advent with Mary, Vol. 3

Vol. 3 - Defiantly Demanding Redemption “In sober fact there is little romance or beauty in the thought of a young woman looking desperately for a place where she could give birth to her first baby… it is a bitter commentary upon the world that no one would give up a bed for the pregnant woman – and that the Son of God must be born in a stable.” (22) -JB Phillips “The Dangers of Advent” (From Watch for the Light: Readings for Advent and Christmas)   Desperation is a word I … [Read more...]

These Sacred Everydays

Last week marked our very last in the series {This Sacred Everyday}. I have loved this series. I've loved hearing other writers consider what makes their simple lives holy. I've loved being challenged by how beautiful the common tasks of living can be. Thanks for being part of this with me. I kicked off this series in May when I had no idea that by the fall I would be living 1700 miles from our then home. I talked about walking by a flowering bush on my block in Austin that reminded me of the … [Read more...]

Light Your Candles Quietly: Keeping Advent with Mary, Vol. 2

An Invitation to Ponder   When I first started asking God and myself what it means to be a mother who prays in the midst of the chaos of life at home with kids, what it could look like to practice prayer when my life was not quiet, when most of my attempts at a personal prayer time were interrupted and distracted, I begin to think of any examples I could find in scripture. The Bible doesn’t say a lot about how to be a mother.  But it follows one mother more closely than any … [Read more...]

{This Sacred Everyday} Annie Barnett

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Today is our last post in this beautiful collection of thoughts on what makes the mundane holy. I can't think of a better way to end our journey than to hear from Annie Barnett, my friend the writer and artist.  * I am an artist, and I see all life through this lens. All our days, we are making art: creating, with our hands, our words, our silence and our lives. We make oatmeal for breakfast and love letters to slip into lunch boxes. We write on each others' lives in delicate strokes of … [Read more...]