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	<title>Comments on: Equal-opportunity domestic violence?</title>
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	<description>Looking at Muslim women in the media and pop culture</description>
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		<title>By: Saha</title>
		<link>http://www.patheos.com/blogs/mmw/2008/11/equal-opportunity-domestic-violence/#comment-2693</link>
		<dc:creator>Saha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2008 20:49:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>a different perspective can be found here

http://www.maryams.net/dervish/2008/10/28/self-defence-against-domestic-violence-is-halal/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>a different perspective can be found here</p>
<p><a href="http://www.maryams.net/dervish/2008/10/28/self-defence-against-domestic-violence-is-halal/" rel="nofollow">http://www.maryams.net/dervish/2008/10/28/self-defence-against-domestic-violence-is-halal/</a></p>
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		<title>By: Imi</title>
		<link>http://www.patheos.com/blogs/mmw/2008/11/equal-opportunity-domestic-violence/#comment-2687</link>
		<dc:creator>Imi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Nov 2008 11:07:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just a point about domestic violence: In Britain 2 women a week die from being abused. There is a call to the police every 3 minutes regarding a violent incident between couples. I hardly think the West has a clean slate on this issue. AND - those Muslims who abuse the ruling to repremand their wives (and note that the ruling doesnt allow you to HIT your wife!) I would say that they are displaying their non-islamic colours not their islamic ones. In other words NON islam gave them the sick mentality to abuse their wife....not Islam</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just a point about domestic violence: In Britain 2 women a week die from being abused. There is a call to the police every 3 minutes regarding a violent incident between couples. I hardly think the West has a clean slate on this issue. AND &#8211; those Muslims who abuse the ruling to repremand their wives (and note that the ruling doesnt allow you to HIT your wife!) I would say that they are displaying their non-islamic colours not their islamic ones. In other words NON islam gave them the sick mentality to abuse their wife&#8230;.not Islam</p>
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		<title>By: samia</title>
		<link>http://www.patheos.com/blogs/mmw/2008/11/equal-opportunity-domestic-violence/#comment-2692</link>
		<dc:creator>samia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Nov 2008 15:46:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This culture of fatwa for everything is bizzare, what happened to common sense?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This culture of fatwa for everything is bizzare, what happened to common sense?</p>
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		<title>By: Philip</title>
		<link>http://www.patheos.com/blogs/mmw/2008/11/equal-opportunity-domestic-violence/#comment-2691</link>
		<dc:creator>Philip</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Nov 2008 09:15:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Krista,  in the original article there is no mention of &quot;pope like hierarchy&quot;. So common sense would point to the fact that no one is claiming that Al Azhar has to be listened to or that it overrides any other legitimate voices. but it IS the highest authority. It has the largest number of people who listen to it and is the most respected in terms of interpretations of law,(govt interference and wahabi/salafi influence aside).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Krista,  in the original article there is no mention of &#8220;pope like hierarchy&#8221;. So common sense would point to the fact that no one is claiming that Al Azhar has to be listened to or that it overrides any other legitimate voices. but it IS the highest authority. It has the largest number of people who listen to it and is the most respected in terms of interpretations of law,(govt interference and wahabi/salafi influence aside).</p>
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		<title>By: Sobia</title>
		<link>http://www.patheos.com/blogs/mmw/2008/11/equal-opportunity-domestic-violence/#comment-2695</link>
		<dc:creator>Sobia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Nov 2008 01:02:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Dude:

haha...yes...perhaps in self-defense.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Dude:</p>
<p>haha&#8230;yes&#8230;perhaps in self-defense.</p>
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		<title>By: Sobia</title>
		<link>http://www.patheos.com/blogs/mmw/2008/11/equal-opportunity-domestic-violence/#comment-2694</link>
		<dc:creator>Sobia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Nov 2008 00:23:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Krista:

hahaha

I never thought of that. But knowing how some people feel about me I wouldn&#039;t be surprised if it did. But yes, let&#039;s really hope it doesn&#039;t. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Krista:</p>
<p>hahaha</p>
<p>I never thought of that. But knowing how some people feel about me I wouldn&#8217;t be surprised if it did. But yes, let&#8217;s really hope it doesn&#8217;t. <img src='http://www.patheos.com/blogs/mmw/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Krista</title>
		<link>http://www.patheos.com/blogs/mmw/2008/11/equal-opportunity-domestic-violence/#comment-2697</link>
		<dc:creator>Krista</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Nov 2008 23:18:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Salaams, thanks everyone for the comments.

@ Dude:
Yeah, totally.  And something like defending yourself against violence isn&#039;t exactly an issue that should require scholarly permission...

@ Philip:
I agree with Sobia&#039;s point that many people look to Al-Azhar as the highest authority, but that&#039;s not the same as saying that it *is* the highest authority...  The system isn&#039;t centralised under one hierarchical body; Sunnis aren&#039;t bound to accept decisions out of Al-Azhar over decisions from other places.  That&#039;s what I meant in questioning the way this was phrased.

@ souvenirsandscars:
Thanks for stopping by!  I&#039;m glad you came here to check if we&#039;d talked about it (and I&#039;m glad we didn&#039;t disappoint!)  Hope to see you commenting more :)  And I hear you on the comments made on the original article... yuck!

@ Sobia:
Yeah, I agree with you...  Just hope that your comment doesn&#039;t start a whole debate in this comments thread over what that verse *actually* means :P</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Salaams, thanks everyone for the comments.</p>
<p>@ Dude:<br />
Yeah, totally.  And something like defending yourself against violence isn&#8217;t exactly an issue that should require scholarly permission&#8230;</p>
<p>@ Philip:<br />
I agree with Sobia&#8217;s point that many people look to Al-Azhar as the highest authority, but that&#8217;s not the same as saying that it *is* the highest authority&#8230;  The system isn&#8217;t centralised under one hierarchical body; Sunnis aren&#8217;t bound to accept decisions out of Al-Azhar over decisions from other places.  That&#8217;s what I meant in questioning the way this was phrased.</p>
<p>@ souvenirsandscars:<br />
Thanks for stopping by!  I&#8217;m glad you came here to check if we&#8217;d talked about it (and I&#8217;m glad we didn&#8217;t disappoint!)  Hope to see you commenting more <img src='http://www.patheos.com/blogs/mmw/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   And I hear you on the comments made on the original article&#8230; yuck!</p>
<p>@ Sobia:<br />
Yeah, I agree with you&#8230;  Just hope that your comment doesn&#8217;t start a whole debate in this comments thread over what that verse *actually* means <img src='http://www.patheos.com/blogs/mmw/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: laila</title>
		<link>http://www.patheos.com/blogs/mmw/2008/11/equal-opportunity-domestic-violence/#comment-2696</link>
		<dc:creator>laila</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Nov 2008 22:34:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Simply great analysis Krista, well said! and Sobia great comment.

It&#039;s a sad everyday reality for many women around the world, and I hope more women speak up and support each-other, because sadly I don&#039;t feel like the &quot;man-made high authorities&quot; give that much of a damn, once in a while we&#039;ll hear something, besides their not the ones getting beat down.  And we don&#039;t hear any &quot;women-made high authorities&quot; around whose words have any influence the public.

I&#039;m happy a Woman has already stepped up to the plate and beat the man (lol) in reinterpreting the wife-beating verse in the Quran she translated. Because there is no such thing as “the” one and only correct interpretation of the Word of Allah, really only he knows what he truly meant.  And I believe Islam is *woman friendly*, yes there&#039;s those superior husband and inferior wife interpretations that some people believe but you have the option to choice the interpretation.

I thought the same thing- address the essence of the problem.  &quot;However, that shouldn’t really be more than a last resort, and should certainly never be a long-term solution.&quot; Ohh no, definitly not a long term solution!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Too bad they didn&#039;t give a short-term solution, it would probably be easier than defending ourselves / fighting back, no one should let the problem get that far along, it&#039;s too dangerous and one&#039;s life could hang in the balance.

I thought it was common-sense advice, but never the less I&#039;ll appreciate it as a form of their support against domestic abuse. And the more support we can get the better, even if it&#039;s tiny baby steps.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Simply great analysis Krista, well said! and Sobia great comment.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a sad everyday reality for many women around the world, and I hope more women speak up and support each-other, because sadly I don&#8217;t feel like the &#8220;man-made high authorities&#8221; give that much of a damn, once in a while we&#8217;ll hear something, besides their not the ones getting beat down.  And we don&#8217;t hear any &#8220;women-made high authorities&#8221; around whose words have any influence the public.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m happy a Woman has already stepped up to the plate and beat the man (lol) in reinterpreting the wife-beating verse in the Quran she translated. Because there is no such thing as “the” one and only correct interpretation of the Word of Allah, really only he knows what he truly meant.  And I believe Islam is *woman friendly*, yes there&#8217;s those superior husband and inferior wife interpretations that some people believe but you have the option to choice the interpretation.</p>
<p>I thought the same thing- address the essence of the problem.  &#8220;However, that shouldn’t really be more than a last resort, and should certainly never be a long-term solution.&#8221; Ohh no, definitly not a long term solution!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Too bad they didn&#8217;t give a short-term solution, it would probably be easier than defending ourselves / fighting back, no one should let the problem get that far along, it&#8217;s too dangerous and one&#8217;s life could hang in the balance.</p>
<p>I thought it was common-sense advice, but never the less I&#8217;ll appreciate it as a form of their support against domestic abuse. And the more support we can get the better, even if it&#8217;s tiny baby steps.</p>
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		<title>By: Dude</title>
		<link>http://www.patheos.com/blogs/mmw/2008/11/equal-opportunity-domestic-violence/#comment-2690</link>
		<dc:creator>Dude</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Nov 2008 20:40:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;I just wish once and for all all the Muslim authorities would just come out and say that a man cannot hit his wife ever...&quot;

Except in self defense!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;I just wish once and for all all the Muslim authorities would just come out and say that a man cannot hit his wife ever&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>Except in self defense!</p>
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		<title>By: Sobia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sobia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Nov 2008 20:25:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sunni Muslims have made Al-Azhar the highest authority. It&#039;s a man-made importance.

Great analysis Krista! I just wish once and for all all the Muslim authorities would just come out and say that a man cannot hit his wife ever and the verse in the Qur&#039;an that has been used to justify wife-beating has actually been misinterpreted. It seems so easy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sunni Muslims have made Al-Azhar the highest authority. It&#8217;s a man-made importance.</p>
<p>Great analysis Krista! I just wish once and for all all the Muslim authorities would just come out and say that a man cannot hit his wife ever and the verse in the Qur&#8217;an that has been used to justify wife-beating has actually been misinterpreted. It seems so easy.</p>
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