When Prayer and Rituals Change Us, Not Our Circumstances

Dilshad and Daanish falls shot

Spring break has started here, and the kids are home. I sent my younger two off to Jummah namaz (Friday prayers) with my inlaws. Lil D and I are hanging at home, doing our own Friday prayer ritual today. With his recent bouts of escapism and wandering, I don't feel comfortable taking him to the mosque today, so we are doing our own thing at home, and much of that "own thing" has come from the advice I received after writing about the Jekyll and Hyde of autism, advice that I later detailed in my … [Read more...]

Rituals of Religion to Break Autism’s Mr. Hyde Meltdowns

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In my post last week about the Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde of autism, I wrote how Mr Hyde has been my son's persona for several weeks, if not months now, and of how I continue to struggle in my faith, in my ability to put full trust in Allah that somehow He will help my son and me. Although I know I should pursue a course of faith and worldly, practical actions (therapies, medical treatments, education, schooling), the scales have been tipped of late towards the latter. I know this, really, I … [Read more...]


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