please take love for granted

Why are we told to not take God's love for granted?Negatively, it's usually used to control us. It's used to make us afraid of not being able to get it or keep it. It's used to dictate to us how to live our lives, how to feel, think and behave.Positively, it's used to make us continually mindful of God's love, always thinking about it, always thankful for it, always living up to it.I want to suggest that neither of these are perfect. Obviously, the first is fear based. Less … [Read more...]

i love you too much

Love changes people, but it doesn't intend to.If you get a sniff of an agenda in what's being called love, run in the other direction please. Because that's not love.You are beautiful, amazing and fascinating as you are. You are loved as you are. Period!I've experienced it and seen it: when you realize you are overwhelmingly loved as you are, just as you are, with no ulterior motive to change you, the transformation is an amazing and happy one. You rest in yourself.It actually … [Read more...]