Answering “Preparing To Be A Help Meet” – Questions To Ask Yourself

AnsweringAnother installment of giving better answers to the questions asked at Debi Pearl’s site message board for the book ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’. Many young ladies ask questions on all sorts of different subjects brought up by the book. There was just one big problem, many of the answers stray into either the outright bad and emotionally unhealthy to dangerous. Yes, typical Debi Pearl borderline abusive. Here’s what we’re going to be doing here at NLQ. Every week, once or twice a week, I’ll be posting up one of the questions from the message board and ask you, our readers, to answer that poor soul’s question in a way that is logical, rational and the best possible solution, in other words 180 degree turn from Debi and friends answers. As always  all spelling and grammar in the posting is unchanged from the original author.

Okay, on to today’s question:

Questions to ask yourself

I’m not a good talker, and I’m afraid to make a mistake so I ask myself questions to help myself.

What kind of questions can serve me if I want to start a relationship with someone? (Questions for me to answer, of what I think about this or that.)

What did Serene tell this poor girl? The top two answers are to study homeschool and child training, which isn’t even anything close to what the questioner asked for advice on. What would you say?

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