Quoting Quiverfull: Listening to Adults Argue More Scarring Than Spankings?

quotingquiverfullby Shoshanna Pearl Easling from No Greater Joy – Yes! I Am Normal

Editor’s note: Michael and Debi Pearl trot out their daughter to defend them against critics who say their child training book ‘To Train Up A Child” is toxic. Not realizing that grown ups married to one another can disagree seems pretty awful. Image the tension in any household where the parents are not free enough to not agree always. That cannot be emotionally healthy either.

I was well-trained, so I did not get many spankings, but I was a wild child, and there were times that I needed one. I remember that spankings were like, “what goes up, must come down.” If you are bad, you get spanked. No emotional drama, no anger, no loud voices; none of that stuff ever occurred in our house. I remember a few times as a child falling down and scraping my knees. I would go show it to Dad for some sympathy. I would always get the most from him, because every time he saw one of us hurt, he would look like he smashed his own thumb. He has always been a tender teddy bear.

When I was 13, I was over helping a young couple by babysitting their kids while they were working on a project. The couple got into a verbal fight and raised their voices. I was blown away. I had no idea couples fought. My dad and mom never raised their voices at each other or at us. I look back at my life in the Pearl house and I thank God I grew up there. I am so blessed to have such amazing parents. The more people I meet, the more I get to know, the more I realize how incredible my childhood was.

QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders, cultural enforcers and those that seek to keep women submitted to men and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers to examine the ideas of Quiverfull and Spiritual Abuse honestly and thoughtfully.

moreRead more about ‘To Train Up A Child’ and the Pearls:

Michael Pearl Answers Critics of ‘To Train Up A Child’


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