Quoting Quiverfull: Awful Marriage? Submit Harder!?

Quoting Quiverfull: Awful Marriage? Submit Harder!? January 16, 2017

quotingquiverfullby one of Lori Alexander poor young deluded readers at The Transformed Wife – Submit YOURSELVES to Your Husband

Editor’s note: A rather toxic stew. Duggar worship? Check. Lori worship and groveling? Check. Decision to have no needs, desires or wants? Check. Is being an extra-Biblical Stepford Wife by suppressing every natural urge what Jesus ordered? I don’t think so.

About three and a half years into our marriage, I was reading up on the Duggars and came across “an open letter written to Anna Duggar by blogger Lori Alexander“. I read that letter and remembered being absolutely stunned and amazed how you were encouraging her to forgive her husband in light of such hurt and the other advice you gave her. I decided to check out your blog, and my life has never been the same.

I remember being so convicted at times that I thought to myself I would just quit reading it. But something kept me coming back, and I think it was because your words came straight from God’s Word, and although they pierced me with conviction, they also brought great hope and light to our situation. I began looking at myself and taking the log out of my own eye, rather than constantly taking the speck out of my husband’s eye.

I read the “submit” verse one day and realized it said “wives, submit YOURSELVES to your husband,” not just “submit to your husband.” I then realized that just trying to submit to my husband through my actions wasn’t enough. I needed to submit my whole self to him. My heart needed to change.

QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders, cultural enforcers and those that seek to keep women submitted to men and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers to examine the ideas of Quiverfull and Spiritual Abuse honestly and thoughtfully.

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