Answering ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’ – Fighting For Your Man With Joy

Answering ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’ – Fighting For Your Man With Joy February 22, 2017

AnsweringAnother installment of giving better answers to the questions asked at Debi Pearl’s site message board for the book β€˜Preparing To Be A Help Meet’. Many young ladies ask questions on all sorts of different subjects brought up by the book. There was just one big problem, many of the answers stray into either the outright bad and emotionally unhealthy to dangerous. Yes, typical Debi Pearl borderline abusive. Here’s what we’re going to be doing here at NLQ. Every week, once or twice a week, I’ll be posting up one of the questions from the message board and ask you, our readers, to answer that poor soul’s question in a way that is logical, rational and the best possible solution, in other words 180 degree turn from Debi and friends answers. As alwaysΒ  all spelling and grammar in the posting is unchanged from the original author.

This is by Shalom – Debi Pearl’s daughter asking ladies what they thought of chapter 2.

Chapter 2 How To Fight For Your Man With Joy

A Merry Heart
I Love this chapter! Fighting for your man! The more women I have talked to the more I realize that almost everyone that has been married for a few years has to fight for her man at least one time, if not more. I am not saying we have bad husbands, there are just women out there being used by Satan to pull at the flesh of our men. I for one love a fight where I know I will win and win big. I have been married for almost ten years now and I can say I have had to step on a couple girls once or twice. (My husband is sooo cute} Laugh. He loves it when I see a girl zooming in on him, for then I just zoom in on him even more to let them know, he is MINE.
This week, read the chapter, look up and study Joy and share with us what you learned. If any of you want to share a story of a time you had to fight for your man, I would love to hear about it. I will try to find time to write a story of my own.

Responses she got? Ridiculous ones, mostly involving fighting for their men around scantily clad worldly skanks (their definition, not my own) and the roles of joy and jealousy. Are any of their ideas good at all? What about simply being secure enough to not flip out if your husband is around someone in revealing clothing or if some gal is nice to him for a millisecond in front of you? What advice would you give? Having to out-flirt, out-joy, out-paw some stranger for your husband does not exactly speak of a strong trusting relationship. Your husband is not a prize you must keep defending against ravenous poachers!

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