Answering ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’ – Trying Not To Be Too Aware of Guys

This poor girl needs help! Professional help to help steer her though issues of self esteem, rejection and healthy normal male female relationships.

Another installment of giving better answers to the questions asked at Debi Pearl’s site message board for the book ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’. Many young ladies ask questions on all sorts of different subjects brought up by the book. There was just one big problem,many of the answers stray into either the outright bad and emotionally unhealthy to dangerous. Yes, typical Debi Pearl borderline abusive. Here’s what we’re going to be doing here at NLQ. Every week, once or twice a week, I’ll be posting up one of the questions from the message board and ask you, our readers, to answer that poor soul’s question in a way that is logical, rational and the best possible solution, in other words 180 degree turn from Debi and friends answers. As always  all spelling and grammar in the posting is unchanged from the original author.

Trying not to be too aware of guys

I walked past a basketball court the other day with a bunch of teenage guys in it playing ball. I was trying to guard my heart and my thoughts but it was really hard! I feel sometimes that I’m not worthy for them to notice me, maybe because I’m not pretty enough or because I’m not nice enough. I don’t know how I can’t be aware and how I can’t feel the rejection that I feel. Can you help? How can I stop those feelings? And how can I not notice every guy that I see?

The advice she got from the commenters was to press closer to God. What do you think?


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