Quoting Quiverfull: Who Is Ultimately In Control of Conception?

November 16, 2012 By 16 Comments
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QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders and aks our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers to examine the ideas of [...]

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Join the NLQ Support Group on Facebook

November 11, 2012 By 1 Comment

NLQ Support is a “closed” and “private” group associated with No Longer Quivering – a gathering place for those escaping and healing from spiritual abuse. We offer personal, non-judgmental support along the journey of recovery. The group is a safe place to discuss and process our experiences with high-control,

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Proud to be a Tent Peg

October 29, 2012 By 7 Comments
Above Rubies Magazine Proud to be a Tent Peg

By Vyckie Garrison Holy sugar … I should know better than to actually read the Above Rubies magazine from which I have been too lazy to cancel my subscription.  But this morning I couldn’t resist skimming through the pages to catch up on Colin & Nancy Campbell’s ever-growing stockpile of Holy War ammunition … er, [...]

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I just don’t like Above Rubies magazine

October 25, 2012 By 14 Comments
Above Rubies Magazine

By Vyckie Garrison My bulk subscription to Above Rubies recently arrived in the mail. Even though I left my Quiverfull beliefs and lifestyle over five years ago, I never bothered to remove myself from Nancy Campbell’s mailing list – so periodically, I still receive five copies of the magazine which claims to be “Strengthening Families Across [...]

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Mama’s Choice – Part 7: Free Agents

October 7, 2012 By 15 Comments
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by Vyckie Garrison   Recently I wrote this to my atheist uncle, Ron: So here’s a big question for you: do you believe in free will? I’ve been thinking a lot about it lately, I can’t really believe we do have free will. It seems to me that so much of our decision-making is influenced [...]

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