Quoting Quiverfull: Men Imagine Sex Only as a Goal, Not as a Relationship?

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by Larry Solomon from Biblical Gender Roles.com - Is Sexual Fantasy Outside a Relational Context Sinful? and as always linked to through Do Not Link.Editor note: Again Larry is trying to justify drooling over his neighbor's wife as if she were a savory steak. I thought the Bible was pretty clear about lust, but Larry is parsing it differently. What do you think? … [Read more...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: Don’t Ask Your Wife About Foreplay or Technique?

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by Biblical Gender Roles from Biblical Gender Roles.com - How a Husband Can Enjoy Sex That is Grudgingly Give by His WifeEditor's note: This alone may be one of the worst pieces of marital advice given by this man. Of course you should talk about these things if something isn't going right in the bedroom instead of faking that it's wonderful. Eventually the fakee is going to be fed up and explode on the one insisting she fake it. Recipe for disaster like so much marriage advice given in the world of Evangelical Quiverfull. If you are doing it wrong and your wife tells you this you should listen! … [Read more...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: Patriarchs Can Fantasize About Other Women & Not Sin?

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by Biblical Gender Roles from Biblical Gender Roles.com - The Church, Women and BarbequesEditor's note: Yes, yes, BGR compares women to a consumable inanimate object in this post - thick juicy steaks. But he so routinely dehumanizes women to objects that's not even the shocking part. The shocking part of this entire thing is his claims that God is a-okay with you imagining having sex with your neighbor's wife. He's playing Bible Twister again! Anyone can play! Just take a verse out of context, claim is means something other than what most people think it says and then use it to make something sort of maybe at least a tiny bit morally squishy you do perfectly acceptable. Not that there's … [Read more...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: Thoughts Can Ruin Your Future Marriage?

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by Lisa Hallahan from A Lovely Calling and reposted at Whole Magazine - Confessions of a Lusting Christian GirlEditor's note: Whoa! Talk about blaming and shaming! Claiming that thinking sexual thoughts before marriage will ruin or defile your future marriage is so wrong. It's human nature to have feelings and thoughts that don't always line up the way you want and this is veering too close to thought crimes. Why all the fear of thoughts and projecting sin on to others? … [Read more...]

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Created To Need A Help Meet – Part 14 How Do I Need Thee? (Your Wife Was Created To Fill Your Sexual Needs)

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by Aletha cross posted from her blog Yllom Mormonpages 59-61Last post, we talked about foreplay and, as Michael calls it, the "2 minute pop".  We also re-touched on how premarital sex hurts the woman because she is the sensitive, weaker vessel.  Today we get to talk more about premarital sex, and women climaxing. Get ready. Text is in purple … [Read more...]

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Created To Need A Help Meet – Part 12: How Do I Need Thee? (Michael Turns Debi On) *Insert Puking Smiley Here*

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by Aletha cross posted from her blog Yllom MormonTrigger warning: You may have to use brain bleach after reading this about Michael's ideas of sex.Hello, everyone! I apologize for my sporadic posting, but I've been traveling to and from Spokane this past week. I'm back home now though, so things should be back on schedule.p55-57 Text is in purpleAlrighty! We are finally at the section we have all been waiting for. I hope you guys are ready for this. … [Read more...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: Part 2 – Have Sex With Me Or Else!

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by Biblical Gender Roles from BiblicalGenderRoles.com - 8 Steps to Confront Your Wife's Sexual RefusalEditor's note: Again this is all about forcing compliance from someone who obviously has reasons not to have sex with her husband. Put out or else. I bought you. You owe me. All horrible messages without adding in the bible verses written by a confirmed bachelor Paul. Taking sex advice from Paul is like listening to a deaf person explain why you shouldn't listen to a certain type of music. … [Read more...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: Part 1 – Have Sex With Me Or Else!

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by Biblical Gender Roles at BiblicalGenderRoles.com - 8 Steps To Confront Your Wife's Sexual RefusalEditor's note: Checking in again with the guy that insists that he is owed sex by his wife because once you buy the cow you should be drinking milk anytime you want it. He doesn't get sexual consent, he doesn't understand that women are not consumable objects. This is the kind of screwed up thinking in Quiverfull and Evangelical Christianity that leads to rape and other sexual crimes. Men are not 'owed' sex ever! … [Read more...]

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Created To Need A Help Meet – Anticipation (Michael Talks About Sex)

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by Aletha cross posted from her blog Yllom Mormon(Trigger warning for that awful honeymoon story of crabs and abuse)*I plan on posting these reviews on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays.  It's a lot at once, but reading this is like walking through mud.  Mud that gets stuck in my head and makes me question my marriage.  So I'm trying to get through this as quickly as possible.Pages 15-20 … [Read more...]

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Part 2 – A Crash Course in Sex, Gender and Sexual Orientation

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by Mel cross posted from her blog When Cows and Kids CollideAlrighty.  Let's start with a quick refresher course from the previous post:Physical sex refers to which secondary sex characteristics a person has.  The binary nature of the system creates problems when someone has a reproductive system that is not fully female or male. Genetic sex refers to the compliment of sex chromosomes (X and Y) present in a person.  Usually, a someone with a female physical sex is XX and a male physical sex is XY - but this cannot be determined without medical testing AND is not always true. Our sexual characteristics are determined by hormonal cascades during early embryonic development.  These … [Read more...]

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