Personal Values and Quiverfull Social Guilt

March 20, 2013 By 5 Comments
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by Becoming Worldly So I’ve been thinking a lot about guilt and shame lately. I think they are important components used to control people’s actions, particularly in the kind of movement I grew up in. I’m sure lots of people have more

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Quoting Quiverfull: Abounding Attitude?

March 20, 2013 By 5 Comments
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by Nancy Campbell of Above Rubies “The Abounding Life” Abound in the work of the Lord (1 Corinthians 15:58). The Greek word in this Scripture is the verb, perisseuo and means

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Quoting Quiverfull: Raising Kids the World Will Hate?

March 19, 2013 By 14 Comments
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by Adam Griffin of  The Village Church Flower Mound “Raising Kids the World Will Hate” Trigger warning – This is one with the type of abusive views that might trigger some. I have a strong, and certainly not uncommon, desire for my child to be validated by the love

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Quoting Quiverfull: Feminization

March 18, 2013 By 2 Comments
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by R. J. Rushdoony from Chalcedon Teacher Training Institute founder Andrea Schwartz’s blog Words From Andrea – “Putting Women in their Place” – January 10, 2013 The tragedy of the women’s rights

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As Innocent As Babes

March 17, 2013 By 11 Comments
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by Calulu One of the big stumbling blocks for me during my time in the Fundamental/Evangelical church was the belief in original sin in babies. Sure, it’s possible to be conceived of sin and born of that same sin, but I could never believe that a newborn

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