CTBHHM In Which Debi Reveals Her Mandate

April 28, 2013 By 8 Comments
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by Libby Anne Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 51-53  Remember that Debi has just poisoned the well against trusting one’s feelings, listening to mainstream society, or giving a hearing to the arguments of Christian feminists. She continues with this: Can we, ordinary housewives and mothers, jump into the arena and compete with these [...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: Educational Process Brainwashing?

April 28, 2013 By 4 Comments
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By Bob Jones III of Bob Jones University speaking of Christian credentialing for Bob Jones University and home schooling Accrediting associations will not approve our educational process if it does not include the worship of their gods. All education is brainwashing. We wash with the pure water of God’s Word, and they wash with the [...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: Respond Like Jesus?

April 27, 2013 By 17 Comments
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by Michael Pearl from “Created To Be His Help Meet” Appendix Has your husband reviled you and threatened you? You are exhorted to respond as Jesus did… You husband will answer to God, and you must answer to God for how you respond to your husband, eve when he cause you to suffer. Comments open [...]

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Seeing Monsters in the Dark

April 26, 2013 By 1 Comment
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by Becoming Worldly   I read this, this, and this recently, so figured today I’d tell a ghost story, one with a bit of fire and brimstone thrown in, and a surprise ending.   One night a little girl goes to bed. She falls asleep in a dress she’s worn for three days, sharing a [...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: HSLDA Tips?

April 26, 2013 By 11 Comments
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From the HSLDA website and written by Chris Klicka – Tips towards handling a CPS investigation Never let the social worker in your house without a warrant or a court order. Never let the social worker talk to your children alone without a court order.

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