Quoting Quiverfull: Woman, It’s STILL Your Fault Maybe?

May 11, 2013 By 4 Comments
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From yesterday’s Quoting Quiverfull by Nathaniel Darnell  on Persevero News. This is a comment that the writer of the piece Nathaniel Darnell made to a divorced homeschooling momma’s question in the comments. I am sorry to hear that your husband has divorced you. This is a shame. Even so, however, my statement is still true [...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: Smiting Over Fatherhood & Divorce?

April 16, 2013 By 14 Comments
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Colin Campbell of Meet For Men He Has a Fathers Heart  April 16, 2013 All this divorce by Christians is having a debilitating affect upon our nation, as well as future generations. We certainly need this Elijah anointing to turn our hearts back to the value of children. The “one to two children” 

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CTBHHM: The Jezebel Type

March 7, 2013 By 5 Comments
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by Libby Anne Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 19-20 Debi starts Chapter 1, “God’s Gift,” with her signature act: A letter she received from a reader. This letter provides an excellent illustration of why women are drawn to Debi’s advice. Dear Mike and Debi, I want to thank

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Quoting Quiverfull: Gratitude Changes Men?

December 28, 2012 By 10 Comments
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QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers

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Quoting Quiverfull: Patriarchy is a Bad Word?

December 8, 2012 By 4 Comments
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QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers

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