Created To Be His Slave

May 2, 2013 By 1 Comment
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by Bruce Gerencser’s guest Ian On the No Longer Quivering blog, I have been enthralled read to read the female view of Created To Be His Helpmeet (CTBHH), by Debi Pearl. For any that don’t know what this book is, it is a manual for women to learn how to become totally dependent

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Quoting Quiverfull: Mom Has Her Jobs When Not Wacked Out On Psychoactive Drugs?

May 2, 2013 By 2 Comments
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by Mary Pride of Homeschool World in “Patriarchy, Meet Matriarchy” Traditional Christian cultures understood this quite well. Mom had her jobs, and Dad had his. If Dad tried to meddle in Mom’s work, she would shoo him away.

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CTBHHM In Which Debi Reveals Her Mandate

April 28, 2013 By 8 Comments
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by Libby Anne Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 51-53  Remember that Debi has just poisoned the well against trusting one’s feelings, listening to mainstream society, or giving a hearing to the arguments of Christian feminists. She continues with this: Can we, ordinary housewives and mothers, jump into the arena and compete with these [...]

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In Which Debi Poisons the Well

April 23, 2013 By 10 Comments
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by Libby Anne Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 49-51 Dear Debi, How can I have a merry heart when my husband treats me harshly? Do I just pretend he is a good man instead of a lazy, TV-watching,

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CTBHHM: Remember, It Could Be Worse!

April 20, 2013 By 2 Comments
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by Libby Anne Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 45-47 I wanted to send my testimony because you have greatly encouraged me. I send it with my husband’s approval. Debi finishes her section on thankfulness

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