The Burqa Experiment: Introduction

January 17, 2013 By 19 Comments
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by Calulu (Editors note: This is my newest project and while it’s not strictly Quiverfull I have had some extraordinary experiences so far that I’ll be chronicling here and on the website The Burqa Experiment) Who am I and why am I doing this? My name is

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Quoting Quiverfull: Birth Dearth?

January 17, 2013 By 21 Comments
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QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers

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Suggestions to End Clergy Abuse

January 16, 2013 By 3 Comments
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Posted today at Richmond Outreach Center Recovery Group: Good advice for any church or organization. The following recommendations were made by a former member of the First Baptist Church of Hammond Indiana for consideration

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Quoting Quiverfull: Men Robbed?

January 16, 2013 By 11 Comments
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QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers

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Why Do People “Drink The Koolaid”?

January 15, 2013 By 6 Comments
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by Kristen Rosser Over at No Longer Quivering they have been talking about why people– and particularly why women– get involved with repressive, spiritually abusive, authoritarian religion.  Why is it, for instance, that so many women are drawn into– and drag their sometimes reluctant husbands into– the

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