by Libby Anne Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 57-58 As I’ve been making my way through Debi’s Created To Be His Help Meet, one question I’ve gotten from readers pretty regularly is “why do women buy into this?”
CTBHHM: Be Afraid, Very Afraid
Filed Under: A Woman's Choice, Accountability, Alienation, Atheists, Bible Interpretation, Biblical Culture, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Big Happy Family Vision, Birth control, Botkin Syndrome, Boundaries, Bounded Choice, Coercive Religious Groups (Cults), Complimentarianism, Confession, Control, Controlling Emotions & being cheerful always, Created To Be His Help Meet by Debi Pearl, Cultural vs. Normative, Demonic Influences, Dominionism / Christian Reconstruction, Drinking the Koolaid, Elitism, Emotions, Father Worship, Fear Based Theology, Fear of Hell, Fear tactics, Femininity vs Feminism, Feminists, Formulaic Religion, Fruit of the Spirit, Fundamentalism, Gender Equality, Group Think, Help Meet, How Did I Get In This Mess?, Isolation, Issues, J.O.Y (Self Denial), Judgementalism, Kobayashi Maru ~ The No-Win Scenario, Learned Helplessness, Legalism, Love, Joy, Feminism (Libby Anne), Maintaining Appearances, Male Headship, Manipulation, Markers of a Cult, Marketing "Biblical Family Values", Marriage Covenant, Meek and Quiet Spirit, Mental / Emotional Health, Michael & Debi Pearl, More from NLQ ..., Mr. Command Man, Mutuality, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, No Greater Joy (Michael & Debi Pearl), Non-Evangelical Christians, Other Religions, Other Women, Patriarchy, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Proverbs 31 Woman, Public Schools, Quiverfull, Quiverfull & the Bible, Quiverfull Books, Quiverfull Counterculture, Quiverfull Discernment, Quiverfull Discernment Websites, Quiverfull Leaders, Quiverfull Ministries, Quiverfull Resources, Quiverfull Topics, Recovering from Spiritual Abuse, Religious Trauma Syndrome, SASBN, Self Esteem, Self-Abnegation / Martydom, Self-Righteousness, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Abuse & Recovery, Spiritual Abuse Survivors, Spiritual Issues, Submission, The Beautiful Girlhood Doll, The Godly Woman, The Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network, Titus 2 Woman, Toxic Relationships, Umbrella of Authority, Using Scripture to support narrow worldview, Weaker Vessel Tagged With: Control by Fear, Created To Be His Help Meet by Debi Pearl, debi pearl, Fear based theology, No greater joy ministries - Michael & Debi Pearl 3 Comments
Review: I Fired God: My Life Inside–and Escape from–the Secret World of the Independent Fundamental Baptist Cult by Jocelyn Zichterman
by Calulu When I first received this book I chuckled over the title, “I Fired God” because it seemed both humorous and sacrilegious at the same time. Firing God? How is it even possible? I quickly found out that the author should have fired her IFB God much sooner. Before reading “I Fired God” my [...]
Filed Under: A Woman's Choice, Accountability, Alienation, Atheists, Beautiful Girlhood, Believing Illness Caused By Stress or Not Being Right With God, Bible Interpretation, Biblical Culture, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Biblical Science, Big Happy Family Vision, Birth control, Blaming the victim, Bob Jones University, Botkin Syndrome, Boundaries, Bounded Choice, Child Abuse, Child Labor, Child Molestation, Chores, Chores, Chores!, Coercive Religious Groups (Cults), Complimentarianism, Confession, Contentiousness with other Christians, Control, Control by sexual assault, Controlling Emotions & being cheerful always, Demonic Influences, Demons everywhere, Domestic Abuse, Dominionism / Christian Reconstruction, Drinking the Koolaid, Duggar Media Obsession, Educational Neglect, Elitism, Emotional Incest, Emotions, Enmeshment, Fallen From Grace by Bruce Gerencser, Family Integrated Church, Family Ministry / Service, Father Worship, Fear Based Theology, Fear of Government, Fear of Hell, Fear tactics, Feminists, Formulaic Religion, Fruit of the Spirit, Fundamentalism, Gender Equality, Group Think, Help Meet, Hot Topics, How Did I Get In This Mess?, I Fired God by JOcelyn R. Zichterman, Independent Fundamental Baptist Churches (IFB), Isolation, Issues, J.O.Y (Self Denial), Jack Hyles, Jack Schaap, JimBob & Michelle Duggar, Judgementalism, Kobayashi Maru ~ The No-Win Scenario, Learned Helplessness, Legalism, Maintaining Appearances, Male Headship, Manipulation, Markers of a Cult, Marketing "Biblical Family Values", Maternal Martyr, Meek and Quiet Spirit, Mental / Emotional Health, Militant Fecundity, Motherhood, Must Read! ~ NLQ Readers Choice ..., Mutuality, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Quote Worthy, NLQ Reviews, No Spank Parents, Non-Evangelical Christians, Other Religions, Parentification of Children, Parenting, Patriarchy, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Prayer only for illnesses, Proverbs 31 Woman, Psychoactive drugs for depression, Public Schools, Quiverfull, Quiverfull & the Bible, Quiverfull Counterculture, Quiverfull Discernment, Quiverfull Discernment Books, Quiverfull in politics, Quiverfull in the News, Quiverfull Leaders, Quiverfull Ministries, Quiverfull Topics, Recovering from Spiritual Abuse, Religious Trauma Syndrome, SASBN, Self Esteem, Self-Abnegation / Martydom, Self-Righteousness, Shunning, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Abuse & Recovery, Spiritual Abuse Survivors, Spiritual Issues, Spiritual Journey, Stay At Home Daughters (SAHDs), Submission, The Godly Woman, The Myth of Teenage Rebellion, The Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network, Toxic Relationships Tagged With: Bart Janz, Book Review, I Fired God by Jocelyn R. Zichterman, Religious Trauma Syndrome, spiritual abuse Leave a Comment
CTBHHM: How To Be an Abused Woman
by Libby Anne Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 54-55 ***trigger warning*** Debi starts this passage by laying out what she calls “God’s Blueprint for Marriage.” She first quotes several verses:
Filed Under: A Woman's Choice, Accountability, Alienation, Bible Interpretation, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Big Happy Family Vision, Blaming the victim, Botkin Syndrome, Boundaries, Bounded Choice, Coercive Religious Groups (Cults), Complimentarianism, Confession, Control, Controlling Emotions & being cheerful always, Created To Be His Help Meet by Debi Pearl, Dangerous People, Demonic Influences, Domestic Abuse, Dominionism / Christian Reconstruction, Drinking the Koolaid, Elitism, Emotions, Father Worship, Fear Based Theology, Fear of Hell, Fear tactics, Femininity vs Feminism, Feminists, Formulaic Religion, Fruit of the Spirit, Fundamentalism, Gender Equality, Group Think, Help Meet, How Did I Get In This Mess?, Isolation, Issues, J.O.Y (Self Denial), Judgementalism, Kobayashi Maru ~ The No-Win Scenario, Learned Helplessness, Legalism, Love, Joy, Feminism (Libby Anne), Maintaining Appearances, Male Headship, Manipulation, Markers of a Cult, Marketing "Biblical Family Values", Marriage Covenant, Meek and Quiet Spirit, Mental / Emotional Health, Michael & Debi Pearl, Mr. Command Man, Must Read! ~ NLQ Readers Choice ..., Mutuality, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Reviews, NLQ Stories, No Greater Joy (Michael & Debi Pearl), Patriarchy, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Quiverfull, Quiverfull & the Bible, Quiverfull Books, Quiverfull Counterculture, Quiverfull Discernment, Quiverfull Discernment Websites, Quiverfull Leaders, Quiverfull Ministries, Quiverfull Resources, Quiverfull Topics, Recovering from Spiritual Abuse, Religious Trauma Syndrome, SASBN, Self Esteem, Self-Abnegation / Martydom, Self-Loathing, Self-Righteousness, Shame, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Abuse & Recovery, Spiritual Abuse Survivors, Spiritual Issues, Submission, The Beautiful Girlhood Doll, The Godly Woman, The Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network, Titus 2 Woman, Toxic Relationships, Umbrella of Authority, Using Scripture to support narrow worldview Tagged With: Biblical submission, christian marriage, Created To Be His Help Meet by Debi Pearl, debi pearl, Domestic Abuse 3 Comments
Quoting Quiverfull: Peace?
by Nancy Campbell of Above Rubies We talked yesterday about deception. Peace is another area where we can be deceived. People often say that have peace about something, but really it is just a RELIEF from their circumstances.
Filed Under: A Woman's Choice, Above Rubies (Nancy Campbell), Accountability, Any Cause Divorce, Be Fruitful & Multiply / God's Vision for Families by Nancy Campbell, Bible Interpretation, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Big Happy Family Vision, Birth Control, Birth Control, Birth control, Blaming the victim, Boundaries, Bounded Choice, Coercive Religious Groups (Cults), Complimentarianism, Confession, Control, Controlling Emotions & being cheerful always, Covenant Breaking, Demonic Influences, Divorce & Remarriage, Dominionism / Christian Reconstruction, Drinking the Koolaid, Elitism, Emotions, Father Worship, Fear Based Theology, Fear of Hell, Fear tactics, Feminists, Formulaic Religion, Fruit of the Spirit, Fundamentalism, Gender Equality, Group Think, Hot Topics, How Did I Get In This Mess?, Isolation, Issues, J.O.Y (Self Denial), Judgementalism, Kobayashi Maru ~ The No-Win Scenario, Legalism, Maintaining Appearances, Manipulation, Markers of a Cult, Marketing "Biblical Family Values", Marriage Covenant, Meek and Quiet Spirit, Mental / Emotional Health, More from NLQ ..., Nancy Campbell, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Quiverfull & the Bible, Quiverfull Books, Quiverfull Counterculture, Quiverfull Discernment, Quiverfull in the News, Quiverfull Leaders, Quiverfull Ministries, Quiverfull Resources, Quiverfull Topics, Quoting Quiverfull, Religious Trauma Syndrome, Self Esteem, Self-Abnegation / Martydom, Self-Preservation Factor, Self-Righteousness, Shame, Shunning, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Abuse & Recovery, Spiritual Issues, Submission, The Godly Woman, Using Scripture to support narrow worldview Tagged With: above rubies, birth control, divorce, nancy campbell, Peace 9 Comments
Silencing Techniques
by Kristen Rosser Have you ever had an entire conversation that was not about the thing you wanted to talk about, but about why you needed to stop talking about it? It’s called silencing.
Filed Under: Accountability, Alienation, Atheists, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Big Happy Family Vision, Blaming the victim, Boundaries, Coercive Religious Groups (Cults), Complimentarianism, Confession, Contentiousness with other Christians, Control, Controlling Emotions & being cheerful always, Demonic Influences, Demons everywhere, Dominionism / Christian Reconstruction, Drinking the Koolaid, Elitism, Father Worship, Fear Based Theology, Fear of Hell, Fear tactics, Formulaic Religion, Fruit of the Spirit, Fundamentalism, Group Think, How Did I Get In This Mess?, Isolation, Issues, J.O.Y (Self Denial), Judgementalism, Kobayashi Maru ~ The No-Win Scenario, Legalism, Life Stories, Like-Minded Fellowship, Maintaining Appearances, Manipulation, Markers of a Cult, Meek and Quiet Spirit, Mental / Emotional Health, More from NLQ ..., NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, Non-Evangelical Christians, Other Religions, Patriarchy, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Quiverfull, Quiverfull & the Bible, Quiverfull Counterculture, Quiverfull Discernment, Quiverfull Discernment Websites, Quiverfull Topics, Recovering from Spiritual Abuse, Religious Trauma Syndrome, SASBN, Self Esteem, Self-Abnegation / Martydom, Self-Righteousness, Shame, Shunning, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Abuse & Recovery, Spiritual Abuse Survivors, Spiritual Issues, Submission, The Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network, Titus 2 Woman, Umbrella of Authority, Using Scripture to support narrow worldview, Wordgazers Words - KR Wordgazer - Kristen Rosser Tagged With: abusiive behaviors, Gas Lighting, recovery, Silencing women, spiritual abuse Leave a Comment
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