Christianity and Christian Patriarchy are not the same thing

December 26, 2012 By 1 Comment
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by Sierra A moment of clarification: If you read my previous post and thought I was issuing a call to arms against the Christian religion, please be aware of this distinction. The Christian Patriarchy movement is a

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Quoting Quiverfull: Wooden Battle Spoons?

December 26, 2012 By 14 Comments
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QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers

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A Sea Change Christmas

December 25, 2012 By 9 Comments
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by Calulu Merry Christmas from NLQ! For many of us here our traditions and doings around the holidays have changed since we’re left behind all that is quiverfull or whatever brand of fundamentalism you were enmeshed with. Sometimes you must tweak

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Revisiting NLQ FAQ: The Bible and Birth Control

December 23, 2012 By 9 Comments

Note:  Before reading this, please read the “Quiverfull and the Bible” FAQ.  Like the “nobleminded Bereans” (Acts 17:11), we are entitled to study for ourselves, so that we may read the Biblical text in an informed manner.  That FAQ provides the background for the method of informed

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Quoting Quiverfull: Painting Feminists?

December 23, 2012 By 10 Comments
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QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers

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