Quoting Quiverfull: Paying Debts?

February 4, 2013 By 5 Comments
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“Don’t Pay This Debt” by Nancy Campbell at Above Rubies -  Thursday January 31, 2013 Don’t you hate being in debt? There are always so many bills to pay and you are scrounging from here and there to pay them. I’ve got some good news for you. There is

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The Gender Issue

January 30, 2013 By 3 Comments
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by Wendy Leifeld (Editor’s note: The link for this article came into my email box (thanks Frank!)  and while it was written & originally published back in 1992 it illustrates the same struggles over gender roles occurring in churches and in

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Raised Quiverfull: Homeschooling

January 25, 2013 By 1 Comment
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by Libby Anne Question 1: Why and when did your parents originally decide to homeschool? Did their reasons for homeschooling change over time? Joe: My family knew nothing about homeschooling until we met the esteemed, Bill Gothard.  Then, when

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Quoting Quiverfull: Men Robbed?

January 16, 2013 By 11 Comments
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QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers

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Why Do People “Drink The Koolaid”?

January 15, 2013 By 6 Comments
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by Kristen Rosser Over at No Longer Quivering they have been talking about why people– and particularly why women– get involved with repressive, spiritually abusive, authoritarian religion.  Why is it, for instance, that so many women are drawn into– and drag their sometimes reluctant husbands into– the

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