Quoting Quiverfull: Raising Kids the World Will Hate?

March 19, 2013 By 14 Comments
Quotes1

by Adam Griffin of  The Village Church Flower Mound “Raising Kids the World Will Hate” Trigger warning – This is one with the type of abusive views that might trigger some. I have a strong, and certainly not uncommon, desire for my child to be validated by the love

Filed Under: Atheists, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Big Happy Family Vision, Boundaries, Child Training, Coercive Religious Groups (Cults), Complimentarianism, Confession, Control, Democrats, Demonic Influences, Dominionism / Christian Reconstruction, Drinking the Koolaid, Educational Neglect, Elitism, Emotional Incest, Emotions, Enmeshment, Father Worship, Fear Based Theology, Fear of Hell, Fear tactics, Feminists, Formulaic Religion, Fruit of the Spirit, Fundamentalism, Gender Equality, Godly Seed, Group Think, Honoring Parents, Hot Topics, How Did I Get In This Mess?, Instant, Joyous, Obedience, Isolation, Issues, Judgementalism, Kobayashi Maru ~ The No-Win Scenario, Learned Helplessness, Legalism, Like-Minded Fellowship, Maintaining Appearances, Male Headship, Mandatory Happiness, Manipulation, Markers of a Cult, Marketing "Biblical Family Values", Mega Churches, Mental / Emotional Health, More from NLQ ..., NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, Non-Evangelical Christians, Old Paths, Other Religions, Parentification of Children, Parenting, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Quiverfull, Quiverfull & the Bible, Quiverfull Counterculture, Quiverfull Discernment, Quiverfull in the News, Quiverfull Topics, Quoting Quiverfull, Self-Righteousness, Sheltering Children, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Abuse & Recovery, Spiritual Issues, The Myth of Teenage Rebellion Tagged With: , , , , 14 Comments

As Innocent As Babes

March 17, 2013 By 11 Comments
goodbaby

by Calulu One of the big stumbling blocks for me during my time in the Fundamental/Evangelical church was the belief in original sin in babies. Sure, it’s possible to be conceived of sin and born of that same sin, but I could never believe that a newborn

Filed Under: A Woman's Choice, Accountability, Biblical Chastisement, Big Happy Family Vision, Birth control, Blanket Training, Botkin Syndrome, Boundaries, Child Abuse, Child Training, Child Training Tips - Reb Bradley, Coercive Religious Groups (Cults), Complimentarianism, Confession, Control, Controlling Emotions & being cheerful always, Council on Biblical Manhood & Womanhood (John Piper), Demonic Influences, Demons everywhere, Dominionism / Christian Reconstruction, Drinking the Koolaid, Elitism, Emotional Incest, Emotions, Enmeshment, Father Worship, Fear Based Theology, Fear of Hell, Fear tactics, Formulaic Religion, Fruit of the Spirit, Fundamentalism, Gender Equality, Godly Seed, Group Think, Growing Kids God's Way / Babywise by Gary Ezzo, Honoring Parents, Hot Topics, How Did I Get In This Mess?, Instant, Joyous, Obedience, Isolation, Issues, John Piper, Judgementalism, Kobayashi Maru ~ The No-Win Scenario, Learned Helplessness, Legalism, Maintaining Appearances, Mandatory Happiness, Manipulation, Markers of a Cult, Marketing "Biblical Family Values", Maternal Martyr, Mental / Emotional Health, Michael & Debi Pearl, Militant Fecundity, More from NLQ ..., Motherhood, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, No Greater Joy (Michael & Debi Pearl), No Greater Joy by Michael Pearl, No Spank Parents, Parentification of Children, Parenting, Patriarchy, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Quiverfull, Quiverfull & the Bible, Quiverfull Books, Quiverfull Counterculture, Quiverfull Discernment, Quiverfull in the News, Quiverfull Leaders, Quiverfull Ministries, Quiverfull Resources, Quiverfull Topics, Recovering from Spiritual Abuse, SASBN, Self-Abnegation / Martydom, Self-Righteousness, Sheltering Children, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Abuse & Recovery, Spiritual Abuse Survivors, Spiritual Issues, Submission, The "Rod", The Godly Woman, The Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network, To Train Up A Child (TTUAC) by Michael Pearl, Who Was That Masked Man by Calulu Tagged With: , , , , , 11 Comments

Quoting Quiverfull: Making Soldiers in Christ?

March 14, 2013 By 16 Comments
Quotes1

From Ladies Against Feminism Kelly Crawford on “Older Woman Teaching the Younger Women: Titus 2 or ‘Christian Feminist‘?” -March 10, 2013 We need women teaching women what the Bible says about children. That God “desires godly offspring”, that raising children is the first line

Filed Under: A Woman's Choice, Accountability, Atheists, Bible Interpretation, Biblical Culture, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Big Happy Family Vision, Birth Control, Birth control, Botkin Syndrome, Boundaries, Bounded Choice, Child Training, Coercive Religious Groups (Cults), Complimentarianism, Confession, Control, Controlling Emotions & being cheerful always, Cultural vs. Normative, Demonic Influences, Dominionism / Christian Reconstruction, Drinking the Koolaid, Elitism, Emotions, Father Worship, Fear Based Theology, Fear of Hell, Fear tactics, Femininity vs Feminism, Feminists, Formulaic Religion, Fruit of the Spirit, Fundamentalism, Gender Equality, Generation Cedar by Kelly Crawford, Group Think, Homeschool, Honoring Parents, Hot Topics, How Did I Get In This Mess?, Instant, Joyous, Obedience, Isolation, Issues, J.O.Y (Self Denial), Jennie Chancey, Judgementalism, Kobayashi Maru ~ The No-Win Scenario, Ladies Against Feminism, Ladies Against Feminism by Mrs. Lydia Sherman and Mrs. Jennie Chancey, Learned Helplessness, Legalism, Maintaining Appearances, Mandatory Happiness, Manipulation, Markers of a Cult, Marketing "Biblical Family Values", Maternal Martyr, Meek and Quiet Spirit, Mega-Families, Mental / Emotional Health, Militant Fecundity, More from NLQ ..., Motherhood, Natural Family Planning, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, Non-Evangelical Christians, Other Religions, Passionate Housewives Desperate for God by Jenny Chancey & Stacy McDonald, Patriarchy, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Pro-Life, Proverbs 31 Woman, Psalm 127 / Quiverfull: Be Fruitful & Multiply, Public Schools, Quiverfull, Quiverfull & the Bible, Quiverfull Blogs, Quiverfull Books, Quiverfull Counterculture, Quiverfull Discernment, Quiverfull in the News, Quiverfull Leaders, Quiverfull Ministries, Quiverfull Resources, Quiverfull Topics, Quoting Quiverfull, Raising Maidens of Virtue by Stacy McDonald, Recovering from Spiritual Abuse, Self-Abnegation / Martydom, Self-Righteousness, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Abuse & Recovery, Spiritual Issues, Submission, The Godly Woman, The Myth of Teenage Rebellion, Titus 2 Woman, Traditional Gender Roles, Umbrella of Authority, Weaker Vessel Tagged With: , , , , 16 Comments

Quoting Quiverfull: A Convenient Time?

March 12, 2013 By 11 Comments
Quotes1

by Nancy Campbell at Above Rubies  I remember someone saying to me when I was raising our children, “There is never a convenient time to have a baby!” How true. If we wait for the perfect time, it will

Filed Under: A Woman's Choice, Above Rubies (Nancy Campbell), Accountability, Be Fruitful & Multiply / God's Vision for Families by Nancy Campbell, Bible Interpretation, Biblical Culture, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Big Happy Family Vision, Birth Control, Birth Control, Birth control, Botkin Syndrome, Boundaries, Bounded Choice, Coercive Religious Groups (Cults), Complimentarianism, Confession, Control, Controlling Emotions & being cheerful always, Demonic Influences, Dominionism / Christian Reconstruction, Drinking the Koolaid, Elitism, Emotions, Father Worship, Fear Based Theology, Fear of Hell, Fear tactics, Femininity vs Feminism, Feminists, Formulaic Religion, Fruit of the Spirit, Fundamentalism, Godly Seed, Group Think, How Did I Get In This Mess?, Isolation, Issues, Judgementalism, Learned Helplessness, Legalism, Maintaining Appearances, Manipulation, Markers of a Cult, Marketing "Biblical Family Values", Maternal Martyr, Mega-Families, Mental / Emotional Health, Militant Fecundity, More from NLQ ..., Motherhood, Nancy Campbell, Natural Family Planning, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, Parenting, Patriarchy, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Pro-Life, Psalm 127 / Quiverfull: Be Fruitful & Multiply, Quiverfull, Quiverfull & the Bible, Quiverfull Books, Quiverfull Counterculture, Quiverfull in the News, Quiverfull Leaders, Quiverfull Ministries, Quiverfull Resources, Quiverfull Topics, Quoting Quiverfull, Self Esteem, Self-Abnegation / Martydom, Self-Righteousness, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Abuse & Recovery, Spiritual Issues, Submission, The Godly Woman, Umbrella of Authority Tagged With: , , , , 11 Comments

Another Duggar Baby On The Way

March 11, 2013 By 25 Comments
joshandanna

Turns out that Josh and Anna Duggar just announced they are pregnant with number three.  People magazine  ran this piece in their magazine and website: The pitter-patter of little feet may sound more like a stampede at a Duggar get-together – and this summer the volume

Filed Under: A Woman's Choice, Announcements, Beautiful Girlhood, Bible Interpretation, Biblical Culture, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Birth Control, Birth control, Bounded Choice, Complimentarianism, Confession, Control, Controlling Emotions & being cheerful always, Demonic Influences, Dominionism / Christian Reconstruction, Elitism, Father Worship, Fear Based Theology, Fear of Hell, Formulaic Religion, Fruit of the Spirit, Fundamentalism, Gender Equality, Godly Seed, Group Think, Home Birth, Hot Topics, Isolation, Issues, J.O.Y (Self Denial), JimBob & Michelle Duggar, Josh & Anna Duggar, Judgementalism, Learned Helplessness, Legalism, Maintaining Appearances, Male Headship, Manipulation, Markers of a Cult, Marketing "Biblical Family Values", Marriage Covenant, Maternal Martyr, Mega-Families, Mental / Emotional Health, Militant Fecundity, More from NLQ ..., Motherhood, Mutuality, Natural Family Planning, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, Old Paths, Patriarchy, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Pro-Life, Proverbs 31 Woman, Psalm 127 / Quiverfull: Be Fruitful & Multiply, Quiverfull, Quiverfull & the Bible, Quiverfull Counterculture, Quiverfull Discernment, Quiverfull in the News, Quiverfull Topics, Self-Abnegation / Martydom, Self-Righteousness, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Issues, Submission, The Godly Woman Tagged With: , , , , 25 Comments