Newslinks – August 16,2012

August 16, 2012 By Leave a Comment
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Lots happening around the blogosphere so every Thursday I’ll be posting links to the most interesting or intriguing news in the world concerning NLQ. Turns out that the sixteen year old girl Jack Schaap stands accused of abusing was also a student at Hyles-Anderson College. Looks like the majority of the First Baptist Church of [...]

Filed Under: Abstinence, American Family Association (Don Wildmon), Announcements, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Child Training, Courtship / Betrothal, Emotional Purity, Group Think, homosexuality, Hot Topics, Hyles-Anderson College, Independent Fundamental Baptist Churches (IFB), Jack Hyles, Jack Schaap, Markers of a Cult, Michael & Debi Pearl, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, No Greater Joy (Michael & Debi Pearl), Purity, Quiverfull in the News, Quiverfull Topics, Spiritual Abuse, Submission, True Love Waits, Uncategorized, Vision Forum (Doug Phillips), Visionary Daughters (Anna Sophia & Elizabeth Botkin) Tagged With: , , , , Leave a Comment

“Don’t Talk About It”

August 14, 2012 By 8 Comments
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by Kristen Rosser (Cross posted from her blog Wordgazer’s Words) I was in college, living in an ex-fraternity house made over into a Christian boarding house for members of Maranatha Campus Ministries.  It was 1983 or 84. The leaders of Maranatha, Bob Weiner and Joe Smith, had come up with another new revelation that they [...]

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NLQ FAQ Revisited: Are Jim Bob & Michelle Duggar “Quiverfull”?

August 10, 2012 By 10 Comments

by Hopewell Q: Are the Duggars Quiverfull? By their own admission, Jim-Bob and Michelle were so “grieved” after reading the information pamphlet in a birth control pill package that they turned their fertility over to God. (“About Us” para.1 See also, Dallas News).  That decision has been the reason for their incredible family size of [...]

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Bad, Evil Psychology Helped Me

July 29, 2012 By 8 Comments

by Latebloomer Growing up, I heard a lot of scoffing at psychology in my family, homeschooling community, and fundamentalist church.  In those circles, the study and application of psychology represented a worthless human attempt to feel happier apart from God and become better without the guidance of the Bible.   The anti-psychology sentiment was so [...]

Filed Under: Alienation, Anxiety, Beautiful Girlhood, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Child Training, Depression, Group Think, Homeschool, Honoring Parents, Instant, Joyous, Obedience, Isolation, Issues, J.O.Y (Self Denial), Latebloomer, Markers of a Cult, Meek and Quiet Spirit, Mental / Emotional Health, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, Perfectionism, Quiverfull Topics, Recovering from Spiritual Abuse, SASBN, Self-Abnegation / Martydom, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Abuse & Recovery, Spiritual Abuse Survivors, Spiritual Issues, Submission, The Godly Woman, The Myth of Teenage Rebellion, The Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network Tagged With: , , , , , 8 Comments

The Marriage Benefits of Leaving Fundamentalism

July 26, 2012 By 7 Comments

by Latebloomer If I had stayed within the constraints of fundamentalism and Christian Patriarchy, my husband and I would absolutely not be happily married today. Our relationship from the very beginning consisted of many departures from the teachings I grew up with. Each of those departures furthered the development, health, and mutual happiness of our [...]

Filed Under: A Woman's Choice, Abstinence, Accountability, Beautiful Girlhood, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Botkin Syndrome, Boundaries, Child Training, College for Daughters, Courtship / Betrothal, Elitism, Father Worship, Gender Equality, Group Think, Help Meet, Honoring Parents, Issues, J.O.Y (Self Denial), Latebloomer, Maintaining Appearances, Markers of a Cult, Marriage Covenant, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Proverbs 31 Woman, Purity, Quiverfull Topics, SASBN, Self-Abnegation / Martydom, Spiritual Abuse Survivors, Spiritual Issues, Submission, The Godly Woman, The Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network Tagged With: , , , , 7 Comments