Quoting Quiverfull: Do Parents Destroy Children Without Trying?

February 21, 2013 By 11 Comments
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by Michael Pearl of ‘No Greater Joy’ Six Ways Parents Destroy Their Children Without Trying – December 14, 2012 God promises, “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it” (Proverbs 22:6). Parents,

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The Parenting Project – Adulthood Part 2

November 28, 2012 By Leave a Comment
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Pushing back the submission deadline to Monday December 3, 2012 but if you want to submit after that time frame we’ll get your answers up and published as soon as possible. This is the last segment. Posting of the answers will start shortly after the 3rd. Thanks again for participating!

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The Parenting Project – Adulthood Part 1

November 20, 2012 By Leave a Comment
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Update: Since it’s taking  longer than anticipated to get the questions up the deadline for mailing them to CaluluNLQ@gmail.com has been pushed back until December 1st, 2012. Please consider participating in all or part of this project! Thanks for considering it. Today’s questions are

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The Parenting Project – Teen Years

November 9, 2012 By 1 Comment
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The next set of questions for the Parenting Project has to do with how you were parented as a teenager and how that affected your future parenting. 1. Did the type of parenting or discipline change as you moved into your teenage years? 2. Were you rebellious as a teen? How did your parents react [...]

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The Parenting Project: School & Parenting

November 5, 2012 By 1 Comment
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If you’d like to participate in the Parenting Project please take a look at the Introduction and Childhood Questions. Today’s questions deal with the way you were parented or disciplined during your school years and your parents interaction with the school rules. Were they on board with the ways in which your teachers tried to [...]

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