Quoting Quiverfull: Saving Your Child’s Life?

June 14, 2013 By 1 Comment
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by Jay Younts of Shepherd Press – Will your words save your child’s life? If you speak the truth in love from your heart and the power of Scripture,

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To Homeschooling’s “Old Guard:” 20 Truths You Need to Hear

May 31, 2013 By 8 Comments
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by Heather Doney cross posted from her blog Becoming Worldly   This is a post for homeschooling’s “old guard,” the people who first started homeschooling and unschooling back in the day. Writing this post has been hard to do. I do not want to make enemies of the old guard unschoolers and homeschoolers. I just [...]

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A Call For Contributions to HA’s Upcoming Self-Injury Awareness Series

May 30, 2013 By 2 Comments
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Cross posted from Homeschoolers Anonymous A Call for Contributions to HA’s Upcoming Self-Injury Awareness Series  By R.L. Stollar, HA Community Coordinator I vividly remember the day when cutting struck close to home.

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Demanding an Answer from HSLDA

May 9, 2013 By 2 Comments
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by Heather Doney (formerly known at NLQ as Becoming Worldly) Something really interesting happened last night. The Home School Legal Defense Association (HSLDA) indirectly responded to the blogger Libby Anne’s series on how HSLDA has helped facilitate child abuse in homeschooling. First off, let me just say that I was surprised

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Quoting Quiverfull: Educational Process Brainwashing?

April 28, 2013 By 4 Comments
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By Bob Jones III of Bob Jones University speaking of Christian credentialing for Bob Jones University and home schooling Accrediting associations will not approve our educational process if it does not include the worship of their gods. All education is brainwashing. We wash with the pure water of God’s Word, and they wash with the [...]

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