The Incredible Helplessness of Men: Lust Edition, Epilogue

December 7, 2012 By 10 Comments
reille

by Sierra   Following up my last post about the John Edwards and Rielle Hunter affair, have a look at some of the comments on the article I cited. Gross. Her skin is pasty, not attractive, especially when paired with a white bathing suit.

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Quoting Quiverfull: Matriarchy?

December 7, 2012 By 3 Comments
Quoting

QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers

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The Incredible Helplessness of Men: Lust Edition

December 6, 2012 By 6 Comments
lust

by Sierra (Editorial note: I went into Sierra’s blog to get a few of her The Sexuality Project posts to reblog here at NLQ and ran across this. While the Edwards-Hunter scandal is now old news the lie accepted by the world and patriarchy that men cannot control their sexual selves needs to be exposed. [...]

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Millipede: Part 38 How Did I Get Here? Part 9

December 5, 2012 By 4 Comments
escapingevil

by Millipede How Did I get here …. It comes down to this:  patriarchy is as much about selling false hopes to women as it is about anything else. We are told that it is something to be embraced as part of God’s Will, we are told that it is a cure

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Quoting Quiverfull: Authority?

December 4, 2012 By 10 Comments
Quoting

QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers

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