Quoting Quiverfull: Chastening Children

February 20, 2013 By 16 Comments

Quiverfull leader, Jonathan Lindvall’s “consistent chastening sequence” … guaranteed to make every instance of “biblical discipline” last an hour or more. ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Step #1: Immediately Send Them to Privacy Step #2: Require a Confession

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Corporal Punishment and The End of The Red Stick

February 19, 2013 By 9 Comments
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by Becoming Worldly This picture could be anybody’s little sister blindfolded and hitting a piñata at her Dad’s house for another sibling’s birthday. But it isn’t. It’s my little sister. She lives in a different world than I did. One with her own bedroom and court-ordered visitation and Christmas presents from a kind stepmother. She [...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: What is Quiverfull?

February 19, 2013 By 6 Comments
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by Jimbob and Michelle Duggar pages 92 to 93 in their book “A Love That Multiples” We find it amusing how many reporters copy and paste information they find about us that someone else has copied and pasted without checking the facts. For instance, even though Wikipedia

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Quoting Quiverfull: Emotions Fickle?

February 16, 2013 By 12 Comments
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by Johnathan Lindvall at Bold Christian Living – The Dangers of Dating Today we believe young people should marry the one they love. Does the scripture ever support such a notion? The Bible teaches us to love the one you marry. Aren’t these

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Quoting Quiverfull: Better Preperation For The ‘Real World’?

February 15, 2013 By 7 Comments
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Mary Pride in Homeschooling World “Getting Started in Homeschooling” -undated Better Preparation for the Real World. Modern schools only seem normal to us because we have been brought up from birth to accept them. Actually, they are highly unnatural environments. Where else

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