Personal Values and Quiverfull Social Guilt

March 20, 2013 By 5 Comments
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by Becoming Worldly So I’ve been thinking a lot about guilt and shame lately. I think they are important components used to control people’s actions, particularly in the kind of movement I grew up in. I’m sure lots of people have more

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Quoting Quiverfull: Abounding Attitude?

March 20, 2013 By 5 Comments
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by Nancy Campbell of Above Rubies “The Abounding Life” Abound in the work of the Lord (1 Corinthians 15:58). The Greek word in this Scripture is the verb, perisseuo and means

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As Innocent As Babes

March 17, 2013 By 11 Comments
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by Calulu One of the big stumbling blocks for me during my time in the Fundamental/Evangelical church was the belief in original sin in babies. Sure, it’s possible to be conceived of sin and born of that same sin, but I could never believe that a newborn

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Saturday Links – March 16, 2013

March 16, 2013 By Leave a Comment
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We’ve decided to go back to the Saturday Links feature because there is so much happening out there in the world of religion, recovery and quiverfull. Starting with a sort of lighthearted one today. So how much money does it take to feed the Duggar clan hamburgers and fries at a

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Quoting Quiverfull: Trusting Your Father’s Decisions?

March 16, 2013 By 7 Comments
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by Anna Sophia and Elizabeth Botkin of Visionary Daughters “How to be a Better Daughter to Your Father” – June 17, 2008 Don’t panic if your father makes a decision you don’t agree with. Have faith in God’s ability to lead through your father,

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