Quoting Quiverfull: Children Rebel Why?

February 28, 2013 By 3 Comments
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by Jay Younts at Shepherd Press – February 22, 2013 Children, then, come next. You are to train your children to know God and then prepare to leave your home. Yet, things get turned around. Husbands and wives often spend time attempting to change each other

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Does Evangelical Christianity Cause Emotional Damage: Part 2

February 27, 2013 By 8 Comments
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by Brucer Gerencser Evangelicalism is dominated by Bible literalism. God said it, and that settles it. There can be no debate, no argument. An infallible God has spoken. Whatever the Bible teaches, the Evangelical is duty bound

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Quoting Quiverfull: Marriage Crisis Part 3?

February 24, 2013 By 8 Comments
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by Anna Sophia and Elizabeth Botkin of Visionary Daughters article “Why Am I Not Married?” – July 1, 2010 What is the Solution? There is no quick fix for a

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Quoting Quiverfull: Marriage Crisis Part 2?

February 23, 2013 By 11 Comments
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by Anna Sophia and Elizabeth Botkin of Visionary Daughters article “Why Am I Not Married?” – July 1, 2010 Who is to Blame? The easiest and most common response is to point our fingers – at the young men,

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CTBHHM: Michael Pearl’s Stamp of Approval

February 22, 2013 By 13 Comments
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by Libby Anne Created to Be His Help Meet, pp. 13 Created to Be His Help Meet, a popular evangelical/fundamentalist marriage manual, begins with a one page introduction by author Debi Pearl’s

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