CTBHHM: Michael’s Meat, Sit Down and Shut Up and It’s All In Your Head

June 4, 2013 By 30 Comments
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by Libby Anne cross posted from her blog Love Joy Feminism Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 72-73 Now that we’re finally finished with Debi’s scare tactics, we get another anecdote from the early years of Debi and Michael’s marriage.

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Quoting Quiverfull: Summer of 2013?

June 4, 2013 By 8 Comments
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by Jay Younts of Shepherd Press If you have taught your children to honor and obey God, be assured that your instruction will be assaulted by education, government, and the entertainment culture.

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I Was An Abusive Homeschooling Mother

June 3, 2013 By 6 Comments
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by Brooke Leyzorek cross posted from Homeschoolers Anonymous I Was An Abusive Homeschooling Mother: Brook Leyzorek’s Story Trigger warning: this story contains a detailed description of physical abuse. I was an abusive homeschooling mother. I can’t change that fact by writing about it.

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Quoting Quiverfull: Raising Maidens of Virtue?

June 3, 2013 By 9 Comments
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by Ladies Against Feminism to promote the Kindle edition of their book “Raising Maidens of Virture” “Our world desperately needs to see the beautiful antithesis of the gospel. Christians need

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Quoting Quiverfull: The Bible is All You Need to be Educated?

June 2, 2013 By 15 Comments
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by Nancy Campbell of Above Rubies -You Don’t Have To Be Rich I read this morning in Ecclesiastes 34:13, “Better is a poor and a wise child than an old and foolish king.”

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