Quoting Quiverfull: True Love Waits is Satanic?

May 15, 2013 By 10 Comments
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by Vaughn Ohlman from Perservero News A friend passed me on a link to an incredibly popular post on marriage… knowing that I write on such things. And I read it, and wanted to cry (It’s Ok. I didn’t actually cry.

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Quoting Quiverfull: Homeschooling Videos?

May 15, 2013 By 4 Comments
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by Blimey Cow on Youtube Not sure if these videos are supposed to be serious or comical but someone knows way too much about homeschooling. What do you think?

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CTBHHM: Be Afraid, Very Afraid

May 13, 2013 By 3 Comments
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by Libby Anne Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 57-58 As I’ve been making my way through Debi’s Created To Be His Help Meet, one question I’ve gotten from readers pretty regularly is “why do women buy into this?”

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ROC Pastor Geronimo Aguilar Being Investigated For Sexual Misconduct

May 11, 2013 By Leave a Comment
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Remember the Jack Schaap friend who is a pastor and supported Schaap even when Schaap admitted guilt in having a sexual relationship with a minor? Looks like the years of whispered rumors have reaped an investigation into the allegations that he grooms girls and young women

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Quoting Quiverfull: Woman, It’s STILL Your Fault Maybe?

May 11, 2013 By 4 Comments
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From yesterday’s Quoting Quiverfull by Nathaniel Darnell  on Persevero News. This is a comment that the writer of the piece Nathaniel Darnell made to a divorced homeschooling momma’s question in the comments. I am sorry to hear that your husband has divorced you. This is a shame. Even so, however, my statement is still true [...]

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