Linda Murphrey Writes an Open Letter to First Baptist Church Hammond

March 24, 2013 By 1 Comment
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by Bruce Gerencser Linda Murphrey is the daughter of the late Jack Hyles. What follows is an excerpt of an open letter Linda wrote to First Baptist Church in Hammond, Indiana. I hope you will take the time to read the entire letter on Linda’s website:

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Quoting Quiverfull: Control?

March 24, 2013 By 3 Comments
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by Dr. James Dobson of Focus on the Family at The American Taliban “Those who control the access to the minds of children will set the agenda for the future of the nation and the future of the western world.” Comments open below

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Quoting Quiverfull: Jinger Duggar Stays Put?

March 23, 2013 By 27 Comments
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From Radar Online – Jinger Duggar Can’t Get Away! Mom Michelle Says She Is NOT Moving To The Big City! Jinger Duggar had high hopes of getting out of her one horse town, but RadarOnline.com has exclusively

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Quoting Quiverfull: The Birth Control Movie?

March 23, 2013 By 4 Comments
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by Kevin Peeples of “The Birth Control Movie” explaining the genesis of his film – Birth Control The Movie was born from a desire to communicate the truth about birth control and family planning from the Word of God to other believers. Through a series

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Quoting Quiverfull: What is Betrothal?

March 22, 2013 By 18 Comments
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by Jonathan Lindvall at Bold Christian Living In the story of Christ s birth we have an interesting illustration of the practice of betrothal. Joseph was deliberating what he should do with Mary, his betrothed wife, having learned

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