Quoting Quiverfull: Men Will Do What?

December 1, 2012 By 9 Comments

QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers

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Quoting Quiverfull: Parents Choosing Spouses For Adult Children?

November 30, 2012 By 10 Comments

QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers to examine the

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Quoting Quiverfull: So the Pilgrims Were Quiverfull Patriarch Types?

November 29, 2012 By 7 Comments

QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we

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Millipede Part 37 How Did I Get Here? Part 8

November 27, 2012 By 1 Comment
perfect-wife-cartoon

by Millipede She notices little things at first. She notices how husbands relate to their wives in public settings. Compared to “worldly” husbands, patriarchal husbands to be quite frank seem rude or even mean to their wives. In fact, they think nothing of rebuking their wives in front of other people. Unlike couples in the [...]

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My Journey

November 26, 2012 By Leave a Comment
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 by Mr. Calulu The journey started out innocently enough when a friend invited our family to attend his church in 1995. I had met him working at a part time job a few years earlier and just liked the guy. We had a number of other things in common, his kids were about the same [...]

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