Waffle Fries Last Stand

August 3, 2012 By 53 Comments
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by Calulu (Or famewhoring For Jesus: What Does Fried Chicken, Jimmy Swaggart, The Duggars and Fox News Have in Common?) Alright, so I know Chick Fil A and Fox News aren’t exactly Quiverfull supporters directly but I could not allow their media manipulation for “Good Christian Values” to pass without commentary. It was with great [...]

Filed Under: 20 and Counting by JimBob & Michelle Duggar, A Love That Multiplies by JimBob & Michelle Duggar, Coercive Religious Groups (Cults), Control, Dominionism / Christian Reconstruction, Drinking the Koolaid, Elitism, Fear tactics, Fundamentalism, Group Think, Hot Topics, Issues, JimBob & Michelle Duggar, Judgementalism, Legalism, Maintaining Appearances, Manipulation, Markers of a Cult, Marketing "Biblical Family Values", NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, Perfectionism, Quiverfull Counterculture, Quiverfull in the News, Quiverfull Leaders, Quiverfull Resources, Quiverfull Topics, SASBN, Self-Righteousness, Sexuality, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Abuse Survivors, Spiritual Issues, The Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network Tagged With: , , , , 53 Comments

Millipede Part 17

August 1, 2012 By 5 Comments
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by Millipede This time around it was different on the surface at least. My husband was trying a kinder and gentler approach to his faith. Rather than trying to make his wife follow behind him in the old Patriarchy Parade, my husband was content to go to church by himself. He did encourage me to [...]

Filed Under: Accountability, Alienation, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Boundaries, Dominionism / Christian Reconstruction, Elitism, Family Integrated Church, Father Worship, Formulaic Religion, Fundamentalism, Gender Equality, Group Think, Hospitality, Independent Fundamental Baptist Churches (IFB), Isolation, Issues, J.O.Y (Self Denial), Judgementalism, Kobayashi Maru ~ The No-Win Scenario, Legalism, Like-Minded Fellowship, Maintaining Appearances, Male Headship, Manipulation, Markers of a Cult, Marriage Covenant, Meek and Quiet Spirit, Mental / Emotional Health, Millipede, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, Patriarchy, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Proverbs 31 Woman, Quiverfull Ministries, Quiverfull Topics, Self-Preservation Factor, Self-Righteousness, Separation - Individuation, Spiritual Issues, Submission, The Godly Woman, Toxic Relationships, Umbrella of Authority, Uncategorized Tagged With: , , , 5 Comments

Who Was That Masked Man Part 13 – Finis

July 31, 2012 By 12 Comments

by Calulu Let’s recap: Tom Smith has just spent something like nearly fifteen years meddling in my life under the guise of ‘Christian Brotherhood’ and we’d just left the church we attended with him for a mainstream denomination in our town. He’d led the villagers in a figurative angry mob with torches against us to [...]

Filed Under: Alienation, Anxiety, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Bounded Choice, Control, Depression, Family Integrated Church, Fear of Hell, Help Meet, Home Church, Husbands Love Your Wives, Isolation, Issues, Like-Minded Fellowship, Maintaining Appearances, Markers of a Cult, Marketing "Biblical Family Values", Marriage Covenant, Mental / Emotional Health, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, Perfectionism, Proverbs 31 Woman, Quiverfull Topics, SASBN, Self-Abnegation / Martydom, Self-Righteousness, Servant Leadership, Shunning, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Abuse & Recovery, Spiritual Abuse Survivors, Spiritual Issues, Submission, The Godly Woman, The Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network, Toxic Relationships, Who Was That Masked Man by Calulu Tagged With: , , , 12 Comments

Bad, Evil Psychology Helped Me

July 29, 2012 By 8 Comments

by Latebloomer Growing up, I heard a lot of scoffing at psychology in my family, homeschooling community, and fundamentalist church.  In those circles, the study and application of psychology represented a worthless human attempt to feel happier apart from God and become better without the guidance of the Bible.   The anti-psychology sentiment was so [...]

Filed Under: Alienation, Anxiety, Beautiful Girlhood, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Child Training, Depression, Group Think, Homeschool, Honoring Parents, Instant, Joyous, Obedience, Isolation, Issues, J.O.Y (Self Denial), Latebloomer, Markers of a Cult, Meek and Quiet Spirit, Mental / Emotional Health, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, Perfectionism, Quiverfull Topics, Recovering from Spiritual Abuse, SASBN, Self-Abnegation / Martydom, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Abuse & Recovery, Spiritual Abuse Survivors, Spiritual Issues, Submission, The Godly Woman, The Myth of Teenage Rebellion, The Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network Tagged With: , , , , , 8 Comments

The Hangover – Adventures in Recovery

July 27, 2012 By 11 Comments
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by Calulu It seems in spite of our attempts to be completely free of what we’ve suffered at our old church there are some issues that linger, things we need to deal with. Some of those things involve the relationship between my husband and myself. Hangovers. First allow me to say this is not one [...]

Filed Under: A Woman's Choice, Accountability, Adventures in Recovery, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Big Happy Family Vision, Boundaries, Bounded Choice, Chores, Chores, Chores!, Drinking the Koolaid, Gardening, Gender Equality, Help Meet, Homemaking, Issues, Male Headship, Mental / Emotional Health, Mr. Command Man, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, Patriarchy, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Proverbs 31 Woman, Quiverfull Topics, Recovering from Spiritual Abuse, SASBN, Self-Abnegation / Martydom, Spiritual Abuse & Recovery, Spiritual Abuse Survivors, Spiritual Issues, Submission, The Godly Woman, The Spiritual Abuse Survivor Blogs Network Tagged With: , , , 11 Comments