Jack Schaap Asked For Reduced Sentence – The Devil Made Him Do It

January 5, 2013 By 6 Comments
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by Calulu Apparently IFB pastor Jack Schaap is asking that he receive a special reduced sentence below the federally mandated minimum of ten years. Why? Because he’s claiming that the stress of running his mega-church First Baptist Church of Hammond, Indiana combined with falling financial resources  put him in a

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Quoting Quiverfull: Riding a Bike?

January 5, 2013 By 20 Comments
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QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers

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We thought modesty made us timeless

January 4, 2013 By 21 Comments

by Sierra I grew up wearing “holiness.” I’ll wait for a moment so you can finish making jokes. You know you want to. Holiness hair in action. Usually associated with Pentecostals, “holiness” dress has several elements:

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Quoting Quiverfull: Snappy Answers?

January 4, 2013 By 25 Comments
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Quoting Quiverfull: “Hanukkah” Parents?

January 3, 2013 By 12 Comments
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