NLQ FAQ: Is No Longer Quivering an Atheist Website?

June 15, 2012 By 3 Comments

Reposting for those newer Patheos readers to know more about us and what we believe September 16, 2010 By Guest Contributor 19 Comments by Vyckie I recently r ece ived a n email from “Henrietta” who asked: If I choose to get involved here, contribute etc, am I part of a Christian but anti QFP group; or [...]

Filed Under: Accountability, Boundaries, Coercive Religious Groups (Cults), Depression, Drinking the Koolaid, Feminazi, Issues, Maternal Martyr, Mental / Emotional Health, Must Read! ~ NLQ Readers Choice ..., NLQ FAQs, NLQ Foundation, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, Quiverfull & the Bible, Quiverfull Topics, Recovering from Spiritual Abuse, Select Entries, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Abuse & Recovery, Spiritual Issues, Submission, Vyckie's Posts Tagged With: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , 3 Comments

Raised Quiverfull: Questioning Q. 3

June 15, 2012 By Leave a Comment

by Libby Anne (and friends) Cross posted from  Love, Joy, Feminism. Raised Quiverfull Introduction — Questioning Summary Please be sure to click the above links to see an introduction to and explanation of this project, which involves a panel of nine young adults who were raised in Quiverfull families and have since questioned and left that ideology answering [...]

Filed Under: A Woman's Choice, Accountability, Alienation, Bible Interpretation, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Big Happy Family Vision, Botkin Syndrome, Boundaries, Bounded Choice, Coercive Religious Groups (Cults), Domestic Abuse, Drinking the Koolaid, Educational Neglect, Elitism, Fear of Hell, Fear tactics, Femininity vs Feminism, Gender Equality, Group Think, Incongruous Circumspection, Isolation, Issues, Learned Helplessness, Love, Joy, Feminism (Libby Anne), Maintaining Appearances, Manipulation, Markers of a Cult, Maternal Martyr, Mental / Emotional Health, Militant Fecundity, Motherhood, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Proverbs 31 Woman, Psalm 127 / Quiverfull: Be Fruitful & Multiply, Quiverfull & the Bible, Quiverfull Discernment, Quiverfull Topics, Self-Abnegation / Martydom, Self-Preservation Factor, Shame, Shunning, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Abuse & Recovery, Spiritual Abuse Survivors, Spiritual Issues, Submission, The Godly Woman, Toxic Relationships Tagged With: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , Leave a Comment

Millipede: Part 8

June 14, 2012 By 9 Comments
pleasinggod

by Millipede The next couple of years were what I would call the “golden years” of Patriarchy. By this I mean that we were living the Patriarchal dream, with the husband “leading” and providing and the wife keeping the home and being submissive. It was the apex of our journey; we were finally living the [...]

Filed Under: A Woman's Choice, Accountability, Alienation, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Big Happy Family Vision, Boundaries, Bounded Choice, Coercive Religious Groups (Cults), Control, Drinking the Koolaid, Elitism, Family Integrated Church, Fear of Hell, Formulaic Religion, Fruit of the Spirit, Fundamentalism, Gender Equality, Group Think, Help Meet, Isolation, Issues, J.O.Y (Self Denial), Judgementalism, Kobayashi Maru ~ The No-Win Scenario, Learned Helplessness, Legalism, Like-Minded Fellowship, Maintaining Appearances, Male Headship, Manipulation, Markers of a Cult, Marketing "Biblical Family Values", Marriage Covenant, Meek and Quiet Spirit, Mental / Emotional Health, Millipede, Mr. Command Man, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, Patriarchy, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Proverbs 31 Woman, Quiverfull Topics, Recovering from Spiritual Abuse, Self-Abnegation / Martydom, Self-Preservation Factor, Self-Righteousness, Separation - Individuation, Shame, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Abuse & Recovery, Spiritual Abuse Survivors, Spiritual Issues, Submission, The Godly Woman, Titus 2 Woman, Toxic Relationships, Umbrella of Authority, Weaker Vessel Tagged With: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , 9 Comments

Westboro Baptist Church comment on No Longer Quivering: Judge who sentenced child abuser “clearly wasn’t spanked enough as a child”

June 14, 2012 By 7 Comments
Westboro Baptist Church No Longer Quivering

by Vyckie Garrison I just came across this graphic on Facebook. We recently had someone from Westboro Baptist Church post a hate-filled, bible-thumping comment on No Longer Quivering – guess we must be doing something right to have attracted WBC’s attention. (◕‿◕✿) Dane County Judge Maryann Sumi sentenced Pastor Philip Caminiti to 2 years in [...]

Filed Under: Atheism, Bible Interpretation, Biblical Chastisement, Child Abuse, Child Training, Coercive Religious Groups (Cults), Control, Dominionism / Christian Reconstruction, Drinking the Koolaid, Fear of Hell, Formulaic Religion, Fred Phelps, Fruit of the Spirit, Fundamentalism, Group Think, Hot Topics, Judgementalism, Legalism, Lori Wick, Markers of a Cult, Mental / Emotional Health, Nathan Phelps, Phillip Caminiti, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), Quiverfull & the Bible, Quiverfull in the News, Quiverfull Leaders, Quiverfull Ministries, Recovering from Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Abuse & Recovery, Spiritual Abuse Survivors, The "Rod", Triggers, Vyckie's Posts, Westboro Baptist Church - WBC Tagged With: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , 7 Comments

Just Pray for Him: How the Christian Church Refuses to Hold Abusive Men Accountable

June 13, 2012 By 48 Comments
abuse

By Lisa Kroulik ©   Cross posted with permission from Hub Pages – http://nybride710.hubpages.com/hub/How-the-Christian-Church-is-Failing-Abused-Women   One of the more difficult things to recover from during the process of divorce from my narcissistic ex-husband was the treatment I received from other Christians. To be fair, none of it was intentionally mean-spirited and all of these people [...]

Filed Under: A Woman's Choice, Accountability, Alienation, Anxiety, Any Cause Divorce, Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, Big Happy Family Vision, Botkin Syndrome, Boundaries, Coercive Religious Groups (Cults), Confession, Control, Covenant Breaking, Depression, Divorce & Remarriage, Domestic Abuse, Drinking the Koolaid, Elitism, Fear of Hell, Fear tactics, Formulaic Religion, Fundamentalism, Gender Equality, Group Think, Isolation, Issues, Judgementalism, Learned Helplessness, Legalism, Maintaining Appearances, Manipulation, Markers of a Cult, Marriage Covenant, Mental / Emotional Health, NLQ Miscellany, NLQ Open Comments, NLQ Stories, Perfectionism, Personal Autonomy, Proverbs 31 Woman, Quiverfull Topics, Recovering from Spiritual Abuse, Self-Abnegation / Martydom, Self-Preservation Factor, Self-Righteousness, Separation - Individuation, Shame, Shunning, Spiritual Abuse, Spiritual Abuse & Recovery, Spiritual Abuse Survivors, Spiritual Adultery, Spiritual Issues, Submission, The Godly Woman, Titus 2 Woman, Toxic Relationships, Umbrella of Authority, Weaker Vessel Tagged With: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , 48 Comments