by Libby Anne cross posted from her blog Love Joy Feminism Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 77-80 You might want to start out by getting a glass of wine. You’re going to need it.
CTBHHM: The Command Man Tames the Shrew
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CTBHHM: Created in the Image of Man
by Libby Anne cross posted from her blog Love Joy Feminism Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 75-76 In this section Debi argues that there are three basic “types” of men,
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CTBHHM: Michael’s Meat, Sit Down and Shut Up and It’s All In Your Head
by Libby Anne cross posted from her blog Love Joy Feminism Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 72-73 Now that we’re finally finished with Debi’s scare tactics, we get another anecdote from the early years of Debi and Michael’s marriage.
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CTBHHM: Single Moms Turned Lesbian
by Libby Anne cross posted from her blog Love, Joy, Feminism Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 67-72 Debi’s purpose in this entire section is to make her readers terrified of the thought of divorce. Her goal is to make sure that her readers won’t even think of leaving
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CTBHHM: Debi Pearl and the Sex-Obsessed Babysitter
by Libby Anne cross-posted from her blog Love, Joy, Feminism Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 65-67 Debi starts with a letter from a reader. Dear Pearls,
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