CTBHHM: Subordinate, But Not Inferior

March 15, 2013 By 4 Comments
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by Libby Anne Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 23-24 The role of being a perfectly fit helper does not make one inferior to the leader. Okay, so think back to everything we’ve read so far. Debi says that women

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Jack Schaap: Jesus Approves of Adultery?

March 14, 2013 By 5 Comments
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We’re coming up on the sentencing of First Baptist Church of Hammond, Indiana’s ex-head pastor Jack Schaap. I believe it’s a week from tomorrow. This morning coming out of station RTV6 comes word that the Feds have released some new information on the

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How Male Dominated Religion Bleeds Women

March 14, 2013 By 22 Comments
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by Cindy Foster My husband, Paul, and I were enjoying some Mexican food at a restaurant near where we were staying in Houston last night. Sitting at a table in very close proximity to ours was a Muslim family.  We see a lot of Muslim families these days, but more so

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Quoting Quiverfull: Making Soldiers in Christ?

March 14, 2013 By 16 Comments
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From Ladies Against Feminism Kelly Crawford on “Older Woman Teaching the Younger Women: Titus 2 or ‘Christian Feminist‘?” -March 10, 2013 We need women teaching women what the Bible says about children. That God “desires godly offspring”, that raising children is the first line

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Quoting Quiverfull: Cultural Moral Decline?

March 13, 2013 By 12 Comments
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by Reb Bradley in an interview at Divine Caroline The title of my new book Born Liberal, Raised Right makes it sound like it’s a parenting book, but it is not. It is an analytical work that looks at social trends and political philosophies, and reveals how

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