Quoting Quiverfull: Childish Homeschooler Syndrome Part 2

March 8, 2013 By 5 Comments
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by Anna Sophia and Elizabeth Botkin at Visionary Daughters Is growing up in a Christian home an advantage to us, or a disadvantage? We pointed out in our last article that children from Christian homes are beneficiaries of many advantages. The danger is when we let

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CTBHHM: The Jezebel Type

March 7, 2013 By 5 Comments
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by Libby Anne Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 19-20 Debi starts Chapter 1, “God’s Gift,” with her signature act: A letter she received from a reader. This letter provides an excellent illustration of why women are drawn to Debi’s advice. Dear Mike and Debi, I want to thank

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Quoting Quiverfull: Childish Homeschooler Syndrome Part 1

March 7, 2013 By 5 Comments
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Anna Sophia and Elizabeth Botkin at Visionary Daughters – “Childish Homeschooler Syndrome Part 1″ It’s been exciting to watch the homeschool “movement” grow up. The firstfruits of this effort are adults now, and we have a sizable

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Quoting Quiverfull: Older Single Women?

March 6, 2013 By 10 Comments
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Jonathan Lindvall of Bold Christian Living Still, Biblically, the parents’ role (and particularly that of a woman’s father) is very significant. I suppose it is theoretically conceivable the Lord would lead a woman to enter a betrothal covenant and marry without her father’s

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The Purity Conversation – My Two Cents

March 5, 2013 By 3 Comments
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by Kristen Rosser It appears to have started with a blog post called I am Damaged Goods by Sarah Bessey, in which she says: In the face of our sexually-dysfunctional culture, the Church longs to stand as an outpost of God’s ways of love

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