Vision Forum & Defending Parental Rights at the Expense of Children

May 23, 2013 By 10 Comments
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by Calulu It seems that HSLDA isn’t the only weapon in the evangelical world against the wicked world supposedly persecuting them. This morning as I was reading through Doug Phillips of Vision Forum’s blog, dodging the pleas for money and the ads for all the crap Vision Forum sells,

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Quoting Quiverfull: Winning Your Father’s Heart?

May 21, 2013 By 10 Comments
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by Anna Sophia and Elizabeth Botkin from Visionary Daughters – “Visionary Daughters Interviewed” We see a particular need for girls to build better relationships with their fathers, as the effects of this relationship spill over into so many other areas of their lives — they way they view God, the way they relate to men, [...]

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Heart And Soul: The Womb as a Weapon

May 20, 2013 By 1 Comment
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This weekend BBC series Heart And Soul did a program on the Quiverfull Movement as it is gaining ground in the United Kingdom, starting out focusing on one particular British Quiverfull family before interviewing Nancy Campbell, our own Vyckie Garrison and Heather Doney of Homeschoolers Anonymous and NLQ.

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CTBHHM: Disappointed Old Failures

May 19, 2013 By 10 Comments
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by Libby Anne Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 58-59 The title of this section is “Disappointed Old Failures,” and it follows last week’s section in threatening women with disaster and shipwreck if they fail to follow Debi’s advice. Or, God’s advice. Debi clearly thinks they’re they same thing.

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Quoting Quiverfull: Hindering the Creator?

May 19, 2013 By 6 Comments
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by Nancy Campbell from Above Rubies Because God is a Creator, He loves to create. He delights in creating each new baby that is born. And every human being God creates is unique, different, and special–a new divine creation that has never been created before.

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