Quoting Quiverfull: Woman, It’s STILL Your Fault Maybe?

May 11, 2013 By 4 Comments
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From yesterday’s Quoting Quiverfull by Nathaniel Darnell  on Persevero News. This is a comment that the writer of the piece Nathaniel Darnell made to a divorced homeschooling momma’s question in the comments. I am sorry to hear that your husband has divorced you. This is a shame. Even so, however, my statement is still true [...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: Peace?

May 7, 2013 By 9 Comments
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by Nancy Campbell of Above Rubies We talked yesterday about deception. Peace is another area where we can be deceived. People often say that have peace about something, but really it is just a RELIEF from their circumstances.

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Quoting Quiverfull: Respond Like Jesus?

April 27, 2013 By 17 Comments
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by Michael Pearl from “Created To Be His Help Meet” Appendix Has your husband reviled you and threatened you? You are exhorted to respond as Jesus did… You husband will answer to God, and you must answer to God for how you respond to your husband, eve when he cause you to suffer. Comments open [...]

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CTBHHM: Remember, It Could Be Worse!

April 20, 2013 By 2 Comments
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by Libby Anne Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 45-47 I wanted to send my testimony because you have greatly encouraged me. I send it with my husband’s approval. Debi finishes her section on thankfulness

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Quoting Quiverfull: Smiting Over Fatherhood & Divorce?

April 16, 2013 By 14 Comments
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Colin Campbell of Meet For Men He Has a Fathers Heart  April 16, 2013 All this divorce by Christians is having a debilitating affect upon our nation, as well as future generations. We certainly need this Elijah anointing to turn our hearts back to the value of children. The “one to two children” 

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