Fearing God at The End of the World

December 20, 2012 By 28 Comments
End of the World

“The remarkable thing about God is that when you fear God, you fear nothing else, whereas if you do not fear God, you fear everything else.” ― Oswald Chambers by Vyckie Garrison Even though I’m 99.9% sure that December 21, 2012 is not the Last Day, I’m having an End of the World party at [...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: Giving?

December 19, 2012 By 7 Comments
Quoting

QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers

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Tea Party Nation’s Despicable Sandy Hook Article

December 18, 2012 By 4 Comments
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by Incongruous Circumpspection I am livid over this article. First, the author, Timothy Birdnow, nonchalantly makes a joke about the elementary school being named “Sandy Hook”: …the ironically named Sandy Hook –

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Quoting Quiverfull: Socialized?

December 18, 2012 By 14 Comments
Quoting

QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ – we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let’s keep it respectful – but at the same time, we encourage readers

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Modesty, Body Policing and Rape Culture: Connecting the Dots

December 17, 2012 By 45 Comments
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by Sierra Definition: The “modesty doctrine” is the belief that women need to cover their bodies to prevent men from being attracted to them, because sexual attraction is lust that leads to sin and death for both.  The modesty doctrine is not the same as

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