Quoting Quiverfull: Affirming Who You Are?

June 6, 2013 By 6 Comments
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by Nancy Campbell at Above Rubies It is important to constantly affirm who God created you to be and who you are in your high and noble calling of motherhood.

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Sexism, Judgement Day and Forgetting as a Survival Tool

June 5, 2013 By 1 Comment
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by Sierra cross posted from her blog the phoenix and olive branch Sometimes, my mind goes through a litany of abuse that I can’t stop. From my father’s intimidation to the men in trucks who ran me off the road

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Quoting Quiverfull: Wait, What? The ‘Sinners Prayer’ Is Not Enough?

June 5, 2013 By 2 Comments
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by David Cloud from The Way Of Life.Org, which is affiliated with the Independent Fundamentalist Baptist Church. “The fruit of the Hyles model and methodology has often consisted of moral and spiritual shipwreck.

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CTBHHM: Michael’s Meat, Sit Down and Shut Up and It’s All In Your Head

June 4, 2013 By 30 Comments
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by Libby Anne cross posted from her blog Love Joy Feminism Created To Be His Help Meet, pp. 72-73 Now that we’re finally finished with Debi’s scare tactics, we get another anecdote from the early years of Debi and Michael’s marriage.

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Quoting Quiverfull: Summer of 2013?

June 4, 2013 By 8 Comments
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by Jay Younts of Shepherd Press If you have taught your children to honor and obey God, be assured that your instruction will be assaulted by education, government, and the entertainment culture.

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