Standing Up to Spiritual Abusers via Social Media Today #WhoWouldJesusSue

February 21, 2013 By 4 Comments
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by Vyckie Garrison Survivors of spiritual abuse are making a push today to call attention to the outrageous tactics employed by pastors and other religious leaders to silence their victims – specifically, we’re calling attention to Calvary Chapel pastor Bob Grenier’s lawsuit against his adult stepson, Alex Grenier who came forward to report that he was physically abused [...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: Chastening Children

February 20, 2013 By 16 Comments

Quiverfull leader, Jonathan Lindvall’s “consistent chastening sequence” … guaranteed to make every instance of “biblical discipline” last an hour or more. ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Step #1: Immediately Send Them to Privacy Step #2: Require a Confession

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Quoting Quiverfull: A New Pope?

February 20, 2013 By 17 Comments
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by Michael Farris, Chancellor of Patrick Henry College & President of HSLDA  – February 17, 2013 E.J. Dionne of the Washington Post says that the best choice for the new Pope would be a nun. That shows as much

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Corporal Punishment and The End of The Red Stick

February 19, 2013 By 9 Comments
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by Becoming Worldly This picture could be anybody’s little sister blindfolded and hitting a piñata at her Dad’s house for another sibling’s birthday. But it isn’t. It’s my little sister. She lives in a different world than I did. One with her own bedroom and court-ordered visitation and Christmas presents from a kind stepmother. She [...]

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Quoting Quiverfull: What is Quiverfull?

February 19, 2013 By 6 Comments
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by Jimbob and Michelle Duggar pages 92 to 93 in their book “A Love That Multiples” We find it amusing how many reporters copy and paste information they find about us that someone else has copied and pasted without checking the facts. For instance, even though Wikipedia

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