CTBHHM: Debi Knows “God’s Plan”

March 3, 2013 By 7 Comments
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by Libby Anne Created to Be His Help Meet, pp. 15-16 In this section, Debi explains what she’s going to do in this book and she doesn’t mince words. This book reveals God’s plan for obtaining a heavenly marriage. Debi believes

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Bible Spice & Blame Shifting – Adventures in Recovery

March 3, 2013 By 1 Comment
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by Calulu “Tell me what you want, what you really, really want..” – The Spice Girls from their song “Wannabe” One of those many things I’ve come to view differently after leaving Patriarchal Fundamentalism is the tendency of those I was around to blame

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Quoting Quiverfull: Sleeping?

March 3, 2013 By 10 Comments

by Nancy Campbell at Above Rubies – February 28, 2013 Tonight I was visiting with my daughter Evangeline. I read some Facebook posts she answered to mothers complaining that they don’t get enough sleep. Isn’t that a constant complaint

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March 2, 2013 By 6 Comments
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by Samantha Betty, Joan and Peggy from the AMC show “Mad Men” (Editors note: Betty Draper Francis is one of the clearest representations of what the old fashioned complimentarism that patriarchal religions push as the only answer.} The first time I ever heard

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Quoting Quiverfull: Helicopter Parenting?

March 2, 2013 By 5 Comments
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by Mary Pride in Homeschool World 2008 You might be thinking, “Who cares how a bunch of rich snobs raise their kids?” The reason I brought all this up is that today’s middle-class homeschooling (and other) parents are in the same boat as yesterday’s Harvard parents. They knew that the right

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