ROC Pastor Geronimo Aguilar Being Investigated For Sexual Misconduct

May 11, 2013 By Leave a Comment
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Remember the Jack Schaap friend who is a pastor and supported Schaap even when Schaap admitted guilt in having a sexual relationship with a minor? Looks like the years of whispered rumors have reaped an investigation into the allegations that he grooms girls and young women

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Quoting Quiverfull: Woman, It’s STILL Your Fault Maybe?

May 11, 2013 By 4 Comments
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From yesterday’s Quoting Quiverfull by Nathaniel Darnell  on Persevero News. This is a comment that the writer of the piece Nathaniel Darnell made to a divorced homeschooling momma’s question in the comments. I am sorry to hear that your husband has divorced you. This is a shame. Even so, however, my statement is still true [...]

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Introducing Homeschooling’s Invisible Children

May 10, 2013 By 2 Comments
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by Heather Doney Today I am proud to unveil a collaborative project called Homeschooling’s Invisible Children (HIC). It is a website that collects horrific abuse and neglect cases, including deaths, of children who were homeschooled or whose parents claimed to be homeschooling them.

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Quoting Quiverfull: Not “Properly” Homeschooling Your Children

May 10, 2013 By 2 Comments
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by Nathaniel Darnell crossposted at Persevero News Today many “homeschoolers” only teach their children academics at home. Many “homeschoolers” over-delegate the actual training time to other people. These families are failing to follow God’s design for family training, particularly if they are not personally directing biblical instruction

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Demanding an Answer from HSLDA

May 9, 2013 By 2 Comments
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by Heather Doney (formerly known at NLQ as Becoming Worldly) Something really interesting happened last night. The Home School Legal Defense Association (HSLDA) indirectly responded to the blogger Libby Anne’s series on how HSLDA has helped facilitate child abuse in homeschooling. First off, let me just say that I was surprised

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