Quoting Quiverfull: Biblical Character?

June 13, 2013 By 12 Comments
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by Jeff Owens of Bible Believer Net – The Attributes of a Wife Who Possesses Character 1. A wife with character will be in submission to her husband,

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“How Male-Dominated Religion Bleeds Women” Article Challenged and Explained

June 7, 2013 By 6 Comments
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by Cindy Foster cross-posted from her blog Baptist Taliban and Beyond After much time and thought, I felt it appropriate to address the concerns

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Quoting Quiverfull: Wait, What? The ‘Sinners Prayer’ Is Not Enough?

June 5, 2013 By 2 Comments
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by David Cloud from The Way Of Life.Org, which is affiliated with the Independent Fundamentalist Baptist Church. “The fruit of the Hyles model and methodology has often consisted of moral and spiritual shipwreck.

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The Fundy World Tales: Part 1

May 29, 2013 By Leave a Comment
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by Bruce Gerencser cross posted from his blog The Way Forward Setting the Story My parents were saved (put their faith in Jesus) at the Scott Memorial Baptist Church, San Diego, California (now Shadow Mountain Community Church) in the early 1960’s. The pastor of the church was Tim LaHaye.

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Domestic Violence in the IFB Church Movement

May 20, 2013 By 2 Comments
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by Bruce Gerencser First, let me give readers the definition for domestic violence. The National Domestic Violence Hotline defines domestic violence as: Domestic violence can be defined as a pattern of behavior in any relationship that is used to gain or maintain power and control over an intimate partner.

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